good bye will miss you

[oldgrape]

ex mr grape is taking tv and computer 2morw so won't be on here 4 sometime and its going 2 take about a month b4 i can afford a tv 4 my son to watch and about 6 months b4 i can get a pc so i wish you all the best thanks for all the help through all my problems

[4getmenot]

if I win rollover tomorrow I'll but you a tv. xx

[oldgrape]

he's an alcholic out 6 nights a week and when harrison was close to deathg in hospital he showed little concern and was more interested in int texting his mates to see which pub they were at. i wish i'd known what he was like years ago but i got 1 good thing out of my little grape

[oldgrape]

thanks 4get make sure you win

[redcrx]

aha, then hun im sorry but you are so much better off without him.

I wish you all the best, i hope that you find a life without him to be a pleasurable one and free from the worry of an alchy hubby.

oh and i wish that he drops the tv on his way out the door tomorrow. And that the PC develops a fault overnight ;)

[4getmenot]

does your local council not have a relief fund that will help you?

[oldgrape]

whats that? sorry never been in this sort of situation b4 where do i go 4 a relief fund, does it matter that i have a poor credit history

[VillageVicar]

Old Grape: Please, what part of country do you live in? If you can arrange to collect in Sussex, I will arrange to provide you with a Television and PC. They're certainly not new, but I have been gifted with one and I'm honoured to share it with you and your son.

Fr Bill

[bigmamma]

Oldgrape honey , you are going through so much lately , I hope the light at the end of the tunnel will shine for you soon , and it will love. Hope you will be able to find some way of letting us know how you are getting on and can find computer access somewhere , although I understand you have more important issues to deal with first. All the best , (( hugs )) xxx

[4getmenot]

villagevicar that is so nice. I;m sure everyones got more than one tv and we can find someone near

[Psychick]

If its any help, or comfort, I went it alone when my daughter was only 15 months old (I left my ex). Yes it was a struggle and we had to make do with the very basics that family and friends gave me but we did and I like to think we did a good job of it too! We was so much better off without "him". I actually wish I had left him sooner!!

Keep strong and keep smiling, you and Harrison will always have each other and thats all that matters now :)

[daffy654]

I have a spare TV/Video combi but there is no way I can get it to Essex from Lancashire,otherwise you would be most welcome to it oldgrape.

[B00]

I'm same daffy, grapey could have had my portable from my bedroom, but i'm in Lancs too :-(

[oldgrape]

4get mentioned a relief fund who do i contact 4 one of those?

[bigmamma]

I didn' t know for sure where Essex was so here's a map so we can see where we are. :-)

http://homepages.nildram.co.uk/~jimella/countm ap.htm#map

[VillageVicar]

Apologies, I clearly didn't read all of the threads. OK, Essex..I still may be able to help. I celebrated a funeral several weeks ago for a gentleman's wife. His children came down from Essex to care for him after the funeral.
I will phone him to ask when they are next coming and I will see if they will carry the telly and computer to you.

Grape: would you kindly contact me at: [email protected] please and I'll see what arrangements we can make.

I'll phone the gentleman this evening. He's lovely and if his daughters can help I'm certain they will.

I must go out for a bit, but will check mail when I return.

I wish you well

Fr Bill

[smudge]

So sorry to hear you've got even more on your plate to deal with oldgrape.

I can't believe your ex is taking your TV & PC away from you & your son. He could have at least softened the blow by leaving you with some comforts!

I really do hope things improve & work out for the best soon. Take care. -xx-

P.S. Nice to see you've received lots of help & advice from other Ab'ers, 'specially the kind offer from Fr Bill!

[beryllium]

I was wondering how much it would cost to courier the wonderful gifts from Fr Bill?

[daffy654]

I don't have much spare cash but if oldgrape has a paypal account i'd be happy to donate �10.00....anyone else have any ideas???