good bye will miss you

[oldgrape]

ex mr grape is taking tv and computer 2morw so won't be on here 4 sometime and its going 2 take about a month b4 i can afford a tv 4 my son to watch and about 6 months b4 i can get a pc so i wish you all the best thanks for all the help through all my problems

[bednobs]

bye then

[daffy654]

He sounds like a right piece of work.Fancy leaving his son with no TV! What a wa***r.
All the best oldgrape.xx

[B00]

Awww grapey, so sorry to hear that :-(

Is buying a cheap telly from your local paper or something an option for you?

Really hope you see you before too long- try to keep ya chin up girl, thinking of you xxx

[weeal]

that is such a shame

goodbye oldgrape I wish you well
we'll still be here when you get back

take care

ali x

[oldgrape]

hey daffy yes he is that and more
boo i only get 44 pounds at the moment 4 everything bills, food etc and is going to take about a month b4 benifits come through so me and baby grape will be playing board games oh no we won't he will probably eat the dice hee hee

[redcrx]

sorry to hear hes still being awkward. I hope that he sees what hes thrown away sometime soon hun.

I wish you well and hope that youll be back soon oldgrape.

Take care of yourself, and little grape and pip xxx

[oldgrape]

legend i wil miss you most of all x x x x x

[redcrx]

i hope youve shown him what his child maintenance costs are likely to be. He cant get away with leaving his children with nothing.

[4getmenot]

do you have a mobile with internet access?

[oldgrape]

he is refusing to pay and said if he is forced to pay he will not visit his son and will quit his job so he goes on income support and i will only be intitalled to pennies

[beryllium]

Grape, where are you in the UK?

[oldgrape]

4get i do have wap access but need to keep tabs on money as i am charged for usage might go round a friends on occasions and pop on here or an internet cafe if i have a spare pound

[oldgrape]

i'm in Colchester, in Essex

[daffy654]

He is sounding more and more like my ex hubby by the minute.He actually did quit his job to avoid paying anything.My daughter is now 20 years old and he has never given her anything in all that time and has only seen her 4 times.His loss I say!!!

[redcrx]

hes a prat. take his money. If he goes on benefits he still has to pay from them.

Dont suffer unduly, he has a responsibility to face up to.

I was originally thinking that little grapes illness had scared him but now i just think hes a git :)

[Sasha13]

But grape, even if this happens and he goes on income support (which he wouldn't be able to claim for a while if he quit his job), the CSA would still make him pay something towards his child which is better than the nothing that you are getting now isn't it?

[4getmenot]

ok sounds wise not to top up the phone bill. I wish you best of luck. xx

[Psychick]

Grrr what a w@nker!

I was going to say do you have a freecycle site for your area, but thats no good to you if you have no computer! Unless you know someone who will let you use their pc to keep an eye out for a tv?

I really do wish you all the best oldgrape and I hope everythings turns out for the better for you and babygrape(s). Hope you get everything sorted soon! Good luck :)

[redcrx]

oldgrape, your local library may allow access to the net.

would be nice just to hear how you are doing every so often