am i hard hearted?

[bednobs]

am just watching that prog about the armed services memorial opened in october this year. They have had some stories on about some of the names on it - from early wars, throught to korea, ireland and afganistan. It really brings alump to the throat. However, why is it that it gets me much more when the friend/comrades are telling the story and are obviously choked up/crying than whent he mums or girlfriends are? Is it because people expect men to cry less than they expect women to? and if thats the case, why is it the older men getting choked up that makes me more upset than the younger ones?

[B00]

Wow geraint! And you saying name calling in Suggs was a no no? Hardly setting an example are you?

[B00]

and no geraint, I dont- is it my turn for name calling now? :-(

[cazzz1975]

Hi lonnie

recently there was this reply which I thought was fairly cold

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion475871.html

there have been other examples on a similar vein, Im not saying she is a horrible person just someone who doesnt really do emotion

[bednobs]

hey, glad you noticed how wonderful i am geraint. I agree with you

[bednobs]

hey, glad you noticed how wonderful i am geraint. I agree with you

[Lonnie]

Hi cazzz,
Thanks for coming back, I see what you mean, we all have different pespecdtives of cold, and that was.