I`ve just found out that my boyfriend is gay

[spottychops]

What shall i do? he still wants to live with me and his new boyfriend!! and they asked for special nights in together

really confused

[Panic Button]

Liar Liar pants on fire

[spottychops]

eh? i have a child with him!!!! thats why he wants to stay

[China Doll]

Well I'd get yourself down to CAB to see if they can offer practical advice in relation to the housing situation and I'd tell your ex that this is inappropriate and if they wish to spend time together they must do it at the new boyfriends house.

[spottychops]

thanks china doll. still think its just a phase!! hoping he stays for little spotty chops junior as hes only 3

[Panic Button]

How did you choose your username?

[spottychops]

chops? or spotty chops

[China Doll]

Being gay is not a phase and he will not get over this. You will have to learn to accept that. It will be better for little spotty to have two happy but apart parents than ones that stay together for the him.

[B00]

I'm stunned you appear to be so unsure about it all?

If he was having an affair with a woman and wanted to move her in would you be in a quandary then too? Because at the end of the day that's what he's having, an affair.

Tell him to move out and have his "special nights" elsewhere!

[spottychops]

cant stop crying knowing its never goin to be the same, baby spots wont understand will he? think i`ll take him away and sell the house back to mr chops as feel ill

[spottychops]

i love him loads, bolt out of the blue for me,

perhaps he needs counselling

[Myriad2112]

Kick the poof out!

[legend758duo]

ffs is this the best we can get ?

im offf for a chinese -
where i will decide wether to return here or to singe my testicles with a bic lighter.

btw im off to buy a lighter as its a close call : -)

[B00]

sorry spotty, i was a bit harsh then, didn't mean to be. Yes of course you're upset.

Don't rush into moving out- your toddler will be confused enough as it is without having the familiar surroundings of home not being there.

Would it be possible for your partner to move out?

[weeal]

oh legend thats a bit drastic - pmsl

[spottychops]

god knows!! no family local and cant tell anyone my boyfriend likes men rather than me.

sob sob i hate men sob

[China Doll]

If he is gay he's gay. If he's bi he's bi. Either way he's cheated on you. Perhaps the counselling might be better reserved for yourself.

[B00]

OK is this a windup??

Why do you need to tell anyone about your private life?

[legend758duo]

ohhhhhhh myyyyyy godddddddddddddddddddd


its like sons and daughters on here

never seen such wooden acting since pinnochio


im off
oouchhhhhhhhhh


singed my nads there

[velvet lady]

ha ha ha, how funnnnnnnnnnny, dumped by a puff

[velvet lady]

bless him, probably with your moanin, he turned gay!!! i would