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men paying on a date
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HI I have recently met up with a guy and we had a drink together. I am due to see him again this week as it's my birthday and he said we would get together to celebrate.
He has suggested a beer festival and said he would book a b & b which I'[m ok with.
He has said today that we are to go halves on the b & b.
I feel a bit put out by this and I'm not sure if I should be.
I live 50 miles away from where this beer festival is so have to either drive there and back or catch the train, both of which would cost money, let alone paying half for the b & b. Am I being unreasonable seeing as it is my birthday?
He has suggested a beer festival and said he would book a b & b which I'[m ok with.
He has said today that we are to go halves on the b & b.
I feel a bit put out by this and I'm not sure if I should be.
I live 50 miles away from where this beer festival is so have to either drive there and back or catch the train, both of which would cost money, let alone paying half for the b & b. Am I being unreasonable seeing as it is my birthday?
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If he really values your company, he wouldn't let you travel on your own - he'd come and pick you up, or pay for your fare.
The B & B sounds ropey as well. The least he could do would be to book into a decent hotel!
Very much sounds as though he's just after one thing. I'm sure you're worth more than that.
The B & B sounds ropey as well. The least he could do would be to book into a decent hotel!
Very much sounds as though he's just after one thing. I'm sure you're worth more than that.
red_dragon:
Please dump this guy pronto! Not only does he plan to use you for sex but he is not interested in your interests, he just wants to get you drunk and bed you. If he was a decent guy he would pay for the hotel at the very least. He doesnt want to give you oral sex either? What a nice bloke...NOT!!!
Please dump this guy pronto! Not only does he plan to use you for sex but he is not interested in your interests, he just wants to get you drunk and bed you. If he was a decent guy he would pay for the hotel at the very least. He doesnt want to give you oral sex either? What a nice bloke...NOT!!!
I think it is rather ungallant of him to expect you to pay half - after all it is your birthday.
I'm inclined to go with the majority here. If you like him, make an excuse not to go, and see if he re-arranges a treat for your birthday - or in fact if he calls at all!
That will be a measure of where this is all going.
I'm inclined to go with the majority here. If you like him, make an excuse not to go, and see if he re-arranges a treat for your birthday - or in fact if he calls at all!
That will be a measure of where this is all going.
As you said you have only recently met the guy lets turn things around here...
If it was his birthday would you pay for everything ? i doubt it so why should he.
What he might be doing is testing you to see if your prepared to pay then say he is paying.
I have paid in the past for females only to have the P!ss taken, So i can see his point of veiw in one way.
If it was his birthday would you pay for everything ? i doubt it so why should he.
What he might be doing is testing you to see if your prepared to pay then say he is paying.
I have paid in the past for females only to have the P!ss taken, So i can see his point of veiw in one way.
Hi Red_Dragon - Take yourself out of the 'picture' for a moment what would you say to this..... ?
Woman meets man for drink and he suggests that on there second date they go and drink beer and have sex in a B&B. Girl agrees, so he thinks that was easy and that he doesn't have to bother to impress her, so then suggests she pays for the privilege .. oh and travel 50 miles!!
You are worth more and you should expect to receive respect. There are plenty of good men out there!, How old is by btw?
Woman meets man for drink and he suggests that on there second date they go and drink beer and have sex in a B&B. Girl agrees, so he thinks that was easy and that he doesn't have to bother to impress her, so then suggests she pays for the privilege .. oh and travel 50 miles!!
You are worth more and you should expect to receive respect. There are plenty of good men out there!, How old is by btw?