Hello smudge, so sorry to hear about your auntie, but there is no need for words, just an arm around her shoulder, a hug and a kiss on her cheek is worth a thousand words, words are just that, words, what is important is the love you can give, you are a kind,caring loving person, this comes through in what you put on here, so to me all you have to do is go visit your aunt and you will do what comes naturally, just be smudge, talk to her if she wants to talk but as I said , I think, just you being you is more than enough, take care smudge, thinking of you xx