Raggy dear boy, you really are getting ... raggy!
Now, clear up the confusion for me - are you the least violent person i could come across - an unfortunate choice of phrase given the thread, but I'll put that down to your temper, I'm sure you'll think first next time - or would you like to ... ah ... stick one on my 'smug chops', where ever they may be?
I think you are a little confused - maybe not just in this area of your life?
Would you like to talk about something that's bothering you?