Sexuality

[Curious79]

For awhile now I have been questioning my sexuality and while I know I am not a lesbian as I like boys too much (!) I seriously think I could be bi. I have had a few drunken experiences but nothing too far but now I really want to explore this other side to myself. Any advice on this?? Has anyone else felt the same?? How did you go about it??

[tonyav]

i'm sure jogger jayne could fill you in !

[joggerjayne]

Yeah yeah, blah blah.

Curious ... ignore the hecklers. Look, just have a bit of fun, have a little play, or however you wish to think of it.

It doesn't make you gay, or bi, or anything. Don't get hung up on it.

The "drunken experience" is the easiest way, because it helps you not to take it all too seriously.

[joggerjayne]

Raggy, you're not being very helpful.

It's all about degrees.

We all have members of the same sex whom we find attractive.

Some we find very attractive.

Some we quite fancy.

And some we end up having a bit of a fling with.

And then we think ... "That was fun, and I'd do it again, but I don't see it becoming a way of life".

Have shag with own sex. Not gay. Simple.

[jackthehat]

Well, RAGGYROMAN, you have made your position on this subject quite clear, both on this thread and elsewhere, so why don't you take your disgust away from this thread where your delicate sensibilities won't be so intruded upon ?

[jackthehat]

"RAGGY ROMAN
Mon 15/09/08
13:36


I definitely wouldn't want to, thought of same sex is rebvolting."

.................from the other thread RAGGYROMAN.........

[daniela31]

well, he's got you there Raggy.....
what thread was that on....I missed it.
:-(

[andy-hughes]

Far more women than men are open to the concept of attraction to their own gender, and are keen to explore their feelings a little further.

Try and find out where the local gay women go, there is usually a bar or club in most big cities.

Once there, just relax, and get chatting. Most lesbians are used to 'curious' people turning up, so you should be able to have a drink and a chat and see if you feel comfortable moving the issue on any further.

The rule is, everything at your speed - nothing you are uncomfortable with.

Good luck.

[andy-hughes]

Raggy - busted!

Now leave it, there's a good boy ...

[jackthehat]

Sorry, RAGGYROMAN, perhaps in your world 'revulsion/revolting' has a different meaning from 'disgust'.........

[daniela31]

I can't find the thread....where is it please?

[jackthehat]

It was Doc's thread about Mr Sulu..............you were an early contributer, daniela31............:o)

[Panic Button]

I find Raggy's view more realistic than Jayne's.

How can it be true that wanting sexual relations with someone of your own sex 'doesn't make you gay, or bi'?