How to find friends?

[bartholomew]

Hi there

I hope you have a nce day!

I am having problems finding real friends. I came to this country four years ago, and I find it difficult to get to know anyone really. I do not drink alcohol at all, and I do not like going out to clubs either as I find them boring...Have tried different courses at my local college, but it has not worked either...any suggestions welcome!


Thanks

[terambulan]

Communities are in church on Sundays if you want to join in.

Ur local hospital would be glad of u volunteering free help in their shops & hospital services (errands for patients, etc) AND, added bonus, you might 'bump' into the nurse of your dreams.

[mirela]

erm, i have got similar problems too, met few people from work, but we only get in touch ocassionaly for meal or drink, but when i feel low or lonely, i found hardly to find anyone to talk to:(

[Velvetee]

Join a salsa class or maybe amateur dramatics.

[zzxxee]

difficalt to no what to suggest without knowing your hobbies

[spudqueen]

You need to find something that you enjoy. Possibles are:
Bird watching group
Walking group
Church
Dance classes
Local football club
Gym
Local branch of the supporters club of the football team you support