To all who have helped me and all here now

[Mamyalynne]

May i wish everyone a very happy new year I know its not been great for some of us but we need to strive for the future generations and I know we will survive as we must.
Off to raise a toast and watch the fireworks around the neighbourhood for the first time alone in 34 years thru misty eyes no doubt.
Take care all
Love Mamya xxx

[chinadog]

Bless you Mamya, May each day make you stronger. xxxxx

[Mamyalynne]

Indeed it will in his memory
thankyou
Mamyax

[Lakitu]

Happy New Year, Mamya.

Love
Lakitu xxx

[Mamyalynne]

Night night lakitu my cloud friend xx

[pinktwink]

wishing you all the best for 2009 mamya xx (((((hugs)))))

[Ice.Maiden]

All the very best for the new year, mamyalynne. We're still here if you ever want to chat. xx

[bensmum]

Bless you Mamya - I hope we will continue to see more of you on here
xxx

[888sally888]

Mamya - I too had a very sad New Year - ended my marriage on Saturday and feel very low x

[pastafreak]

Wishig you a year of strength and recovery ,mamaya
xx

[puddicat]

Oh sally thats sad!!!

[christine847]

Wishing you all the best for 2009 Mamya xx

[Rosetta]

It can only get better mamyalynne.

And to Sally, I can imagine how you feel, I know how it would be if it were me.

God bless xxxx

[Mamyalynne]

Oh what a flurry of replys, thankyou pink, ice bensmum, pasta, christine and rosetta last night was not as bad as i expected but still teary eyed.
Love you all
Mamya xxx


888sally888 thanks for your kind words I cannot comment on your breakup cant begin to countenance it as we had 34 idyllic years together and i know thats why people are so worried about me. If it was meant to be sweetheart you will recover in time.
Thinking of you
Mamyaxxx

[puddicat]

Like i said on the sisters thread,my sister was left with 3 children widowed,at least you have loving memories mamyalynne,my sis didnt have time to make as wonderful memories as you,you have a a wonderful family supporting you, ure own and us lots of lovexxx

[Mamyalynne]

I do try to count my blessings puddicat but we all get a wee bit selfish my heart goes out to all who have lost
xxx

[Rosetta]

Mamy, its not selfish its self preservation

[Ice.Maiden]

You've thought of others all along mamyalynne, but it doesn't mean that you can't be tearful over your own plight now and again. I think it's wonderful that you had such a long and happy marriage. Hope mine goes the same way. xx

[pinktwink]

your not being selfish you are bound to miss a one you held so dear and had so much joy with. There will always be certain times of the year when you will think of them with atear that is a healthy part of the grieving process. Dont ever be afrais to show or share your feelings xx

[Mamyalynne]

If I could wish you all the love and joy Ive had my magic wand would be sparking by now and if that sounds sickly sweet I make no apologies.

[888sally888]

Thank you all for your kind words - as usual. And Mamya - I am sending you strength for the future x