My boyfriend and myself have just started living together, we were talking about relationships etc, when I said that in long term relationships/marriages people go through spells of boredom...He is deeply offended and reckons he now looks at me in a different light!!! Reckons that when I go through a bored spell I will end the relationship....ive tried explaining that not everything is fluffy clouds and rainbows but he just doesnt get it!