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[xxlizziexx]

that is what the doctor'sconclusion is, my conclusion is that the advice he gave me was very good, extremly good. and i do need to do what he says, and i am going to. im not going to tell my mum face to face like i did before, im going to write her a letter adn give it to her, becuse im better at writing it than talking it. she might listen to it more you never know, its worth a try.

ok so thats my amazing trip to the doctors sorry if i have bored you! heehe. i hope everything is ok for everyone and i am so grateful i cant expres it to you all for giving me that extra strength to go to the doctors and get something done about it. thank you all so much and im glad i have done it. thank you all again.

xxlizziexx

[zgma]

Hugs Lizzie, I think a letter is a good idea.  Good luck!

[FP]

Thanks for keeping us informed Lizzie.  Yes, do write your mum a letter and give her a hug when you give in to her.   Keep us in touch and keep posting your helpful answers on this site.

Luv FP x

[mully]

xxlizziexx   you've done the right thing in talking to a doctor, and getting help from counsellors.

 your mum might also feel hurt that you could't tell her but al least you are going too and I think writing a letter to her is an excellent idea as you can express yourself more and hopefully you  will be able to talk to her instead of bottleing things up.

 it sounds like you have lovely friends that care for you

I hope you get everything sorted with your mum and take care x  

[CHOPS'R'US]

Oh hunny that was lovely reading that, very touching... I think a letter is a good idea when i was 16 i went through something and couldn't really speak to my mum about it so i wrote her a letter and she came to me with open arms, now we are much closer and i give her hand made thank you cards when i feel she has gone out her way for me which she really apprciates....Good luck hun

[natalie_1982]

Well done Lizzie, that must have taken a lot of guts to do that and you'll be fine from now on in because you've got the courage to face things head on. Lots of luck and love to you sweetie XXX

[wonky]

Hello darling glad to hear it went so well at the docs!!

i think when your ma reads your letter she will be happy that instead of self harming yourself again and trying to deal with it yourself you have been mature enough to get help from a professional!! also knowing you feel like that your mum should not be angry with you because that will only make it worse!! good luck and let me know how you are getting or get on with the book!!

 x x

[natalie_1982]

If I was your mum I'd be proud to have a daughter who acted so maturely, and, like I say, is not afraid to face things head on. Keep us posted Lizzie X

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[Hammer]

Good luck with the letter Lizzie. It might just break the ice so you can have a good old natter with you mum. I hope so.

xxx

[xxlizziexx]

thank you all for your replys, i am going to write the letter tonite and give it to her tomoro i am going out tomoro so do you think its a better idea that i give it to her tomoro wen im ot here and slepeing at a firends house or on sunday wen i am home and i am here,???? thanx again to everyone xx