Serious question for Sqad...

[sn�gs]

Is fidelity within a marriage something to be valued and respected - or can a 'loving' relationship be maintained even though one party regularly ''plays away from home''?

Serious question... not just ''a load of hot air'' (like that disgusting thread over in Chatterbank)...

:-o ;-))

[sara3]

playing away from home is disrespectful to your spouse and therefore unacceptable, in my stuffy opinion!

[craft1948]

Oh alright.......yes it is....and no it can't be.....

[steg]

i have fidelity within my harem

[sn�gs]

Where is he then... over in CB talking about farting?

[sqad617]

snags....why me?'....I am no expert.

Fidelity, if in a marriage is a reality and not a myth, then it has to be valued, respected and indeed admired.

Not all marriages are that perfect........at a guess, much less than half.

If one of the partners "plays away" and his or her positive characteristics outweigh the infidelities (if they ar not too numerous or obvious) then in my opinion a loving relationship can be maintained.

None of us are perfect and very few can resist temptation, but that should not in itself destroy a relationship.

I am not an expert in these matters and you will get better answers than this one snags.

[jake-the-peg]

I would say that it depends on whether or not deceit is involved

[eyeshade]

How can there be value and respect in a marriage or non marriage if one half is playing away on a regular basis, surely this would be an "affair" and deffinitely not in my meaning of the words value and respect.
ES

[cazzz1975]

In our modern throw away society, fidelity is to be respected in my opinion.

[sara3]

↑ stompe??

[ReallyLegend]

I think what squidder means is it depends on whether the guy gets found out or not.



I think personally its disgraceful and should be frowned on and offenders should have their respective genitalia sewn up or cut off.


OR BOTH

[sn�gs]

Sorry... I've run out of stars...

Have a piece of pie instead... its still warm...

[craft1948]

I think a relationship of sorts could be maintained if one party is playing away............it would depend on how much money he had.......

[sara3]

what kind of pie?

[sn�gs]

Humble ;-)

[sara3]

I'll keep my stars, thanks!

[craft1948]

run out of stars my bum.......he's just s0dding lazy.....