Family & Relationships6 mins ago
Serious Boob question!
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Ok so the previous thread got me thinking (which is at times dangerous!).
My problem, is my boobs are far too small (I think so anyway!) At 22 I am a 34 A (A at a push!)
Mr Wiggal is more then happy with this, and I know he means it and isnt just saying so to keep me happy!
But I have always wanted to be bigger, but most people say aslong as your man is happy then that is fine -
Ladies, Would you stay as you were because your man is happy with you as you are even if you are not completely happy? (Mr Wiggal has said he doesnt want me to change but will support me if I do!)
And men - well any input from you a male perspective would be muchly appreciated too! :-)
(And no, I am not posting a picture as well, I wouldnt and it would be embarassing lol!)
My problem, is my boobs are far too small (I think so anyway!) At 22 I am a 34 A (A at a push!)
Mr Wiggal is more then happy with this, and I know he means it and isnt just saying so to keep me happy!
But I have always wanted to be bigger, but most people say aslong as your man is happy then that is fine -
Ladies, Would you stay as you were because your man is happy with you as you are even if you are not completely happy? (Mr Wiggal has said he doesnt want me to change but will support me if I do!)
And men - well any input from you a male perspective would be muchly appreciated too! :-)
(And no, I am not posting a picture as well, I wouldnt and it would be embarassing lol!)
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You sound pretty sorted to me! If you had huge kn0ckers, you'd probably be moaning about neckache, backache, rebound etc.
I was smallbreasted when young, my daughter would love to be a few sizes bigger - I know it gets to her when she has to use a bit of padding etc, and feels 'inadequate' sometimes, but you have to keep a perspective on things. It's highly unlikely Size 40DD or whatever will make you any happier than you already are xx
I was smallbreasted when young, my daughter would love to be a few sizes bigger - I know it gets to her when she has to use a bit of padding etc, and feels 'inadequate' sometimes, but you have to keep a perspective on things. It's highly unlikely Size 40DD or whatever will make you any happier than you already are xx
Wiggal. After giving birth I got bigger and better boobs and they never went saggy and droopy. If I had had big boobs to start with, well...................
Be content with what you have got and be content that those who love you love you for who you are. If a man seriously wanted me to do anything to change my physical appearance then I wouldn't want him. He wouldn't be worth having. Most men I know are not turned on by fake boobs anyway.
There speaks a wise old woman of 63. (Things have gone a bit south these days, but hey ho, who cares!!)
Be content with what you have got and be content that those who love you love you for who you are. If a man seriously wanted me to do anything to change my physical appearance then I wouldn't want him. He wouldn't be worth having. Most men I know are not turned on by fake boobs anyway.
There speaks a wise old woman of 63. (Things have gone a bit south these days, but hey ho, who cares!!)
Implants can look natural, but I think it must be down to employing a good surgeon, because many don't.
Before opting for something so drastic, make sure you talk it over with medical folk with your best interests at heart. Sometimes what you think will make you happy proves not to 'do the trick' after all. If you can work on your self image then it may do more for your sense of well-being than surgical shape changes.
A loving partner may like small, medium, or big boobs, but what they most like is not having their partner put themselves through risk for something that ought not be so important. If you have thought it over and are convinced you simply can't accept yourself as you are, then go for it. But explore all other avenues first.
Before opting for something so drastic, make sure you talk it over with medical folk with your best interests at heart. Sometimes what you think will make you happy proves not to 'do the trick' after all. If you can work on your self image then it may do more for your sense of well-being than surgical shape changes.
A loving partner may like small, medium, or big boobs, but what they most like is not having their partner put themselves through risk for something that ought not be so important. If you have thought it over and are convinced you simply can't accept yourself as you are, then go for it. But explore all other avenues first.
Silly girl - of course the taunts hurt when you were an adolescent, but you're (supposedly) grown up now so should shrug it off as ignorant comment (which is what it is).
Too many people get taken in by media rubbish about so-called "beauty" - and there is a danger that breast implants would put Mr Wiggal right off you - then where would you be. Give it some SERIOUS thought and you will realise you're following a stupid dream. Get real and join the majority of the human race who have to learn to accept their bodies as they are - ignore the Jordans and Poshes of the unreal fashion world - are they happy as a result - no, of course they're not, far from it.
Good luck in the future.
Canary (male)
Too many people get taken in by media rubbish about so-called "beauty" - and there is a danger that breast implants would put Mr Wiggal right off you - then where would you be. Give it some SERIOUS thought and you will realise you're following a stupid dream. Get real and join the majority of the human race who have to learn to accept their bodies as they are - ignore the Jordans and Poshes of the unreal fashion world - are they happy as a result - no, of course they're not, far from it.
Good luck in the future.
Canary (male)
Hey all!
I am now back home! :-)
Thank you all for your answers and in put, it was good to hear so many opinions and they are all appreciated - Apart from being called a silly girl when said person had no idea on the effect the 'taunts' had on me! But thas ok, you cant know everything just from what I type!
I will continue to think long and hard about it, but very much definitely siding on the be happy with what I have, after all it could be worse!
I am now back home! :-)
Thank you all for your answers and in put, it was good to hear so many opinions and they are all appreciated - Apart from being called a silly girl when said person had no idea on the effect the 'taunts' had on me! But thas ok, you cant know everything just from what I type!
I will continue to think long and hard about it, but very much definitely siding on the be happy with what I have, after all it could be worse!
I am fat and have always had big, 44G at present, boobs. I plan - if I ever lose my excess weight to get my boobs 'augmented' - back where they belong. But their actual size isn't a major issue.
Big boobs droop and can cause back pain and some men find it difficult to talk to your face when they would much rather talk to your boobs.
Have the op only if it is a big issue in your life, not for any other reason.
Big boobs droop and can cause back pain and some men find it difficult to talk to your face when they would much rather talk to your boobs.
Have the op only if it is a big issue in your life, not for any other reason.
