Serious Boob question!

[wiggal]

Ok so the previous thread got me thinking (which is at times dangerous!).

My problem, is my boobs are far too small (I think so anyway!) At 22 I am a 34 A (A at a push!)
Mr Wiggal is more then happy with this, and I know he means it and isnt just saying so to keep me happy!
But I have always wanted to be bigger, but most people say aslong as your man is happy then that is fine -
Ladies, Would you stay as you were because your man is happy with you as you are even if you are not completely happy? (Mr Wiggal has said he doesnt want me to change but will support me if I do!)
And men - well any input from you a male perspective would be muchly appreciated too! :-)

(And no, I am not posting a picture as well, I wouldnt and it would be embarassing lol!)

[Sqad]

Large, small, happy, unhappy.......the bottom line is that they are the same old t1ts on the same old woman.

[wiggal]

Ahem sqad - I am not old and neither are 'they' thank you!

[Bbbananas]

If you are happy with them wiggal, then don't be suckered in by all these pics in papers & the media etc saying that you're only sexy if you have heaving huge bazooma's. And your man is happy too - that's a bonus by the way, not a prerequisite.
34A aint huge, but not tiny either. And, at least you have some - there's many a sufferer of breast cancer who would give anything to have 34A's...... ;-)

Surgery is not a soft option - and to be honest, unless your small-ish boobs are causing you great psychological distress or severely affecting your self-esteem and self-image, why on earth put yourself through it?

[hc4361]

You'd undergo cosmetic surgery and have plastic bags stuck on to your chest wall to keep a man happy? That's bonkers.
Learn to love the way you look and make the most of yourself.

[Bbbananas]

How very flowery and romantically put sqad....

[4getmenot]

If it was making me unhappy then I would do something about it. Same with weight. I may know my man loves me for who I am but doesnt stop me wanting to lose weight

[redman41]

Hi wiggal !
You are who you are and beauty is in the eye of the beholder !
If you had been born or 'built' any other way you would not be wiggal !

[Naomicorlett]

As a 32F I would say I would rather be smaller . You can always add to make clothes hang better but can't take away. My dear Ma used to say if she was young today she would have had a reduction and saved on back ache and grooves on shoulders. If you are happy enough then thats what matters. I certaintly wouldn't have an op for cosmetic reasons ( have had too many for medical reasons I guess )

[redcrx]

do you mean would i stay the same just because my partner wanted me to? to a certain degree yes i would.
but wiggal, at 22 you may want bigger, but implants dont look natural, what if your fella hated the look and feel of them if you had it done?

[wiggal]

hc, that is the thing! It wouldnt be keeping the man happy, he is happy now! It is me that would be happier!

It caused me a lot of problems and grief growing up (all the names at school and worse!) but now it isnt as much an issue thanks to padded bras!!

[Sqad]

wiggal....my point is that breast augmentation may be making you feel more confident, but it is still you behind those t1ts.

It doesn't matter what you do, if you are not enough for him, he will look elsewhere...big boobs or not.

[Bbbananas]

Would you have gastric banding or a bypass though 4get? surely you'd try exercise & diet first - not resort straight away to surgery (not as though you'd be accepted on the NHS anyway unless you were morbidly obese).

Wiggal - don't know how old you are love, but maybe they will grow a bit more yet? I had small boobs until I had my children... they went small again, then when I hit my mid-3o's (hormones?) they sprouted quite magnificently.... ;-)

Learn to love 'em - they're yours, and they're healthy.

[Androcles]

They'll probably get bigger as you get older anyway, before they head south, so don't worry about it. It is who you are which is important, and what makes Mr Wiggal think you are the best!

[4getmenot]

its all very well saying she should be happy with her body but some people never are

[4getmenot]

No salla I wouldnt and never keep up with the diet or exercise either lol. But I am happy with myself I just would like a slimmer shape. Thats the thing though there is no other way to get bigger boobs than surgery there are other ways to lose weight

[wiggal]

Naomi, my sister is very small like me, but then she met her wife who is a 36J so between them they are both happy with what the other has!!

Mr Wiggal often tells me I should try buying a top that I dont need to wear a bra with as it would be fine, but not a chance of that happening! I could imagine the names being shouted of bus windows at me in my school days all over again! :-(

[Sqad]

salla....yours got more attention that wiggal's are likely to have ;-)

[Sqad]

vibra....well thank you.

[Bbbananas]

I'd say most people never are completely happy. There would be plenty of things I would change if I could wave a magic want. I'd love to lose a stone without any effort, exercise or cutting down. But when I was a teenager I was dead skinny - and was never happy with that either.
It's a fact of human life, we're rarely satisfied with ourselves.

Wiggal sounds pretty sensible to me... I don't think she'll be beating a path to Harley Street just yet..