is sex good or bad?

[advicegirl]

My question is sex good or bad? Does it hurt every time you have sex?

[andy hughes]

It all depends on the circumstances - who is involved, and so on.

As for your second question - if intercourse is painful, ytou may have a problem somewhere. This may be something simple - you are not ready when penetration takes places is favourite. You need to be fully relaxed and lubricated before your partner's penis (I'm asssuming we are talking heterosexual sex here?) is inserted - if he rushes and you are not ready, you may experience some discomfort. Likewise, if you are tense, this will cause discomfort or even pain.

Make sure you take all the time you need to be ready, and if this is not the problem, have a quick word with your doctor - no need to be embarassed, this is a very common situation. Hope you get it sorted.

[angelica313]

Sex is great! depending on the young lady: If she is new to sex, it is normal to feel temporary discomfort. For Virgins it will hurt the most. If the man is larger than what she is use to that could cause a little pain. Patience is vital in love-making, rushing could cause pain to both parties. Taking a graceful approach is best. If the young lady is nervous rushing in will only make it worst. Personally, I usually feel a little discomfort right at the insertion. It is normal, the larger the man, the more you will have to adjust. Some wowen have to realize that a good condition vagina is naturally tight, and the man have to squeeze in anyway, a few moments later it should be all pleasure. Always practice safe sex, even if you are a first timer, even if you have been together for 2 years! always. Now if you are experiencing pain in your stomach, or some that does not pass, contact your doctor.