I know its been a few weeks... but

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I finally met someone so special from an online dating site, we have ended up speaking about a future as we have so much in common ect (I know crazy)

Today, about 3pm a bunch of flowers was delivered to her work place (im a soppy git) but i havent heard a thing from her, not even a text to say thanks etc... should i be worried??

[dinkleboo]

God what is wrong with people, its a nice gesture thats all, maybe a weeny bit of embarrassment but after that I would feel kinda special, and if I was one of the other employees I would be thinking, lucky her!!!

[sara3]

sorry.. it doesn't sound too good to me.

I'd suggest you back off and see what she does next. don't humiliate yourself by chasing after her.

[joeluke]

Basically she's just not that into you

Move on and find someone who actually appreciates expensive bunches of flowers

[dinkleboo]

She may have a bad head, but i'd be wary, back off now, dont text or call....see if she comes to you

[NOX]

I'd agree, back off and don't contact her until she contacts you, as she's either not that interested or she's an attention seeking little critter who thinks she's got you hook line and sinker and is doing the old ' treat em mean and keep em keen;' routine, and you don't want to fall victim to that.

[dinkleboo]

I dont understand why people are wary of newbies, we all have to start somewhere, some of the advice is good, some may be not what we want to hear, but it gives us the opportunity to put together all the advice and come to our own conclusions

[joeluke]

Dinkleboo.....cos certain people on here thrive on thinking that every new user is a previous banned user

[dinkleboo]

Oh ok, thanks for tellin me :o)

[237SJ]

I think people might be wary of new posters because they could be people who have been suspended or banned a week previously and you don`t know who you`re talking to.

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im gonna back off completly... wait till (IF) she contacts me..
strange thing is she was planning what to do for my birhtday in a few months and also my sisters wedding!!

[B00]

awww, bless your cotton socks ads.

[237SJ]

Good idea ads. The old adage "treat them mean and keep them keen" can apply for men you know. I don`t know how old you are but when I was a teenager, a boy who wasn`t interested was of huge interest.! Let her see that you`re not that interested and that you are your own person.

[joeluke]

237SJ......new users are never given a chance then are they?

Maybe we need some kind of vetting process, the AB clique could grill newbies before verifying their eligibility

.......or they could always give newbies the benefit of the doubt

[dinkleboo]

Its horrible to have to do things like that, but you'll get ur answer...hope it works out for either way

[B00]

your mouth really does look like a cats bum when you pull that face joe

runs >>>>>>>>>>>

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im carrying on like im a teenager - but im in my mid 30's.....
the dating scene was new to me following a 10 yr relastionship - been a year now - met a few people, nothing solid... then this person comes along - and wow... same intrests, same desires things just seem right, then sunday morning it starts to go a little wired - ya no somple things such as no 'xx's after txts etc

[B00]

thats why you sent the flowers isn't it? You knew i' gone a bit sour?

[joeluke]

It's gone t1ts up since sunday morning?

When you were in bed with her?

You do the math ads

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No i sent the flowers cos I saw them and instantly thought of her...

[237SJ]

Well I think you can only do what you can do. You have been in touch, you have done the nice thing and sent flowers. There is nothing else you can do. If all of that comes to nothing, then put it down to experience and move on. My (male) friend got lucky and married the first and only date he had from online dating. You are quite young and there is certainly hope yet.