over reacting or ??

[flump1]

Hi all, I don't live with my boyfriend , I do spend a lot of time at his house. He has two children at home , a lad of 18 and girl of 15. ow, no matter what time I get to his place there is always a pile of washing up to be done, ok I don,t mind that , but there is always a mess , one would think there were three little kids living there. Now today I am fed up, do you reckon the kids could help, ??

[tigerlelly]

Why do you do any of it? If they want to live in a pigsty let them.

[netibiza]

flump, why would they do it, when they know you will be along to do it!

[woofgang]

I am just not sure why you are still with a guy who treats you like the visiting skivvy? Where is the relationship going? are you going to move in with him and become the resident skivvy or let him bring his low standards to your house? not even going to mention the kids.....

[Brinjal]

Just ignore the mess. It is not for you to tell his children how to live in his house. Nor is it for you to be their maid. Leave theur mess just take careof your own place.

[flump1]

thank you all, I will heed yon advice and let them get on with it !!!