Lapdancing is it cheating??

[tinkerbell23]

Further to my thread
http://www.theanswerb...3.html#answer-7243162

Just had friend on phone again.

Would you class a visit to a lapdancing club & paying for a private session a dumpable offence? Or even cheating?

The guy in question was alone btw. Not in a group :0(

[albaqwerty]

If he is single and has not said he is a monogamous relationship, he can't cheat.

[Voulez-vous]

Group of lads in a lapdance club, no problem. One man alone is creepy (if you are his partner). IMO

[tinkerbell23]

Thanks for all the opinions guys ;0>

appreciated xxx

[evedawn]

No .., I don't think it's cheating (and as a woman that may surprise some)

[tinkerbell23]

I think its just wanting to know what went on privately for £120 that was worth a second £120 eve....then we could define what was cheating i guess...

Or even being in the situation where doubt can arise..

Shame really xx

[Traci66]

I go lap dancing twice a week, rake in an absolute fortune and OH doesn't count it as cheating ;))). How are you Tinks?

[naomi24]

As others have said, a Stag Party is one thing, a private 'session' quite another. I wouldn't like my husband to do it - but then he wouldn't. He has more respect for himself - and for me - than that.

[Psybbo]

Maybe it was to improve his technique??????

[tinkerbell23]

Yeah, i agree naomi!

To me a group is ok but like you say on their own is different !


Hahaha@ traci yeah making that kinda dosh! Im
Pretty well thanks actually working away!! Hows u xx

[Traci66]

Good thanks Tinks, got rid of the rug rats yesterday, so tady I'm relaxing.

[tonyav]

Traci, whats going on with the Saab ? sorry tinks.

[tinkerbell23]

No probs tony!! Aaah make most traci! Iv had a boringggg induction day i think i need to order a takeaway to recover LOL xx

[craft1948]

A big deal seems to be being made about the money, if it was his money surely he could spend it on what he likes, if it was their money I'd demand a pair of Louboutins.

[Psybbo]

To kick him with craft??

[Traci66]

Hi tony, it's in for repair tomorrow on his insurance. Sorry Tinks.

[craft1948]

Not at all sibton. I always remember one time when I was out with the second Mr Craft and this slapper was flirting outrageously with him. I just looked at her and said "Carry on pet it'll save me some time when we get home". (I don't know if she was a lapdancer though)

[tonyav]

LOL @ crafty.
Thats good then Traci.

[cubic999]

I feel having to see another woman romp semi clad all over you and grind on your paticulars is a form of cheating, partners should be able to provide this kind of "sexual relief" if not then theres a communication/love issue going on.
I dont get men/women who go watch strippers who are in a relationship, dont people realise its hurtful to their partners

[tinkerbell23]

Thanks all!!

Like your answer cubic xx

[joeluke]

Of course it's not cheating, there's no touching, basically it's live porn