Lapdancing is it cheating??

[tinkerbell23]

Further to my thread
http://www.theanswerb...3.html#answer-7243162

Just had friend on phone again.

Would you class a visit to a lapdancing club & paying for a private session a dumpable offence? Or even cheating?

The guy in question was alone btw. Not in a group :0(

[mrs.chappie]

How do Tinks.

I'd feel that I'd been cheated on, most definitely. I'd be hurt and angry and I'd wanna punch his lights out.

I'd probably end up punching him in the knee-caps though, as my OH is about 6'5, and I'm only 5'.

[LoftyLottie]

I would feel cheated on too, but I doubt I would ever feel attracted to that sort of bloke in the first place.

By the way, I would never go to see a male stripper either, alone or in a group. Not my idea of entertainment - a load of bawdy women OMG horrible..................

[Euphemia]

I cannot agree more LL.

[mrs.chappie]

OH won't go to see strippers either. We once went to Amsterdam and I was willing to go and see a *show* <ahem> but OH wouldn't come with me.

He hates that sort of thing (unusual for a fella, I know).

[tinkerbell23]

Thanks for the opinions xxx

[LoftyLottie]

Mrs C. Mr LL is the same as Mr C. Not his sort of entertainment at all - and he is all 'man'!!

[chaptazbru]

My OH won't watch strippers or go to lap dance clubs (so he says). He also says why dine out on mince when he has steak at home - cheesey isn't he ????!

[Sqad]

Oh! dear .....Oh! dear.........where have we heard all those before?

[chaptazbru]

Heard all what ??

[Sqad]

\\\\He also says why dine out on mince when he has steak at home -\\\\

\\\Not his sort of entertainment at all - and he is all 'man'!!\\\

If he is in his 60's and 70's one wouldn't expect him to go to clubs with Lap Dancers......if he did.......he wouldn't come home and say "Hello darling, I have just been to a lap dancing club"

If he was in his 30's and 40's it might be quite entertaining for him........but he still would be less likely to inform the missus.

[tonyav]

LOL, Here comes sqad he treads where angels fear to tread. I 'll get me popcorn.

[chaptazbru]

That's why I put 'so he says' in brackets.

[Sqad]

chapta.........I noticed........;-)

[LoftyLottie]

I just hate seedy, usually older men, that go to watch strippers, lapdancers, etc. Younger men just treat it is a big joke usually and go in groups and it's harmless fun. I have no doubts whatsoever about what Mr LL likes and doesn't like and considering he doesn't go 'out with the boys' or isn't in to bawdy behaviour I do happen to believe I am right. This doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate women or look at women.

I think I know my husband better than anybody else actually after 40 years. He is no angel and certainly not a henpecked little mouse either.

[2sp_]

Couples really need to sit down early on in the relationship and discuss what they consider to be cheating and what they are happy with.

Some people don't like their partner flirting or even looking at someone of the opposite sex.

I'd be hacked of about the money more that anything else to be honest.

[Sqad]

You see.....it depends upon the definition of "all man."

[2sp_]

*off*

(before the spelling police swoop)

[LoftyLottie]

Considering Sqad that we are very boring people and our social life is 99%inclusive of the other partner, I bloody well know he doesn't go to lap dancing clubs. I typed my last answer before I read your answer which quoted me by the way.

I think you must have a very old fashioned idea of marriage Sqad, and you are not much older than me.

[LoftyLottie]

I am the flirt in our marriage!! He puts up with it.