Hw Can I Trust My Bf?

[Officialusername]

I'm going to destroy a relationship if I continue my thoughts. My ex, has a very bad past and has cheated on all his previous girlfriends. How can I stop myself from thinking I will be next?

[Officialusername]

I meant my bf, not ex

[Mamyalynne]

I think it would be very difficult not to expect the same, take things slowly before you consider any great commitment.

[MadMen]

As above. Keep an eye on things.

Mamya knows what she's on about. She has life experience, and is the AB-mama :))

[Officialusername]

Yeah I guess so. So hard.

[mrs.chappie]

If he's cheated on all his previous girlfriends, what is it that has attracted you to him?

[askyourgran]

I would be very wary. If he cheated on his last girlfriend while seeing you I would not take the relationship seriously by which I mean take precautions to stay healthy.

[craft1948]

I think you should consider someone else..........

[Officialusername]

Not at all. He didn't cheat on any of his gfs with me. He was single when we met. Its just he's got a very bad past. Something I find very hard. One weekend he went out, he stopped texting me at 6pm o the Friday and didn't text me til 2:30 in the afternoon that saturday, and said he had no signal. Little things like this play on my mind.

[craft1948]

You have a mind?....................of your own?

[Officialusername]

hahaha I know I do. Sorry haha

[mrs.chappie]

How long have you been together?

[Officialusername]

5 weeks just.

[Canary42]

Only you can judge whether to trust him or not - and if there's no trust then no relationship.

[mrs.chappie]

Still a new relationship then. I think I'd try to keep things casual for the time being. You might scare him off if he thinks you're getting too serious too quickly.

As for thinking you will be next.....well, to be honest, so would I. Sorry. I guess only time will tell.

[VHG]

>>>has cheated on all his previous girlfriends.
>>>How can I stop myself from thinking I will be next?

Above, just read what you have written.

You WILL be next if he has cheated on all his previous girlfriends.

Women think they can change men like this, they cant.

Men like this like the "conquest"of new women and care not one jot for their current girlfriend.

Cut your loses now before you get hurt.

[VHG]

I have just read you have only been going out for 5 weeks.

Maybe YOU are the one he is cheating with, and he has another girlfriend (or even wife).

[Sycamore3House]

If you are only 5 weeks into this relationship and you are asking these questions you know in your own mind what you should be doing. If there are doubts there don't continue for your peace of mind.

[Quizmonkey]

People don't change. Simple as that.

[Dee Sa]

did he cheat on his last gf with you ? if so expect the same.
If you have this nagging feeling now its going to get worse, dump him before he dumps you.