Ratty Hubby When Ill....

[scruffbag]

My hubby is a bit off colour on his week off from work. He is being extremely ratty, and is taking it out on me.
He has man flu!!!
Also I bought some flight tickets for us, with the agreement he would give me the money back when he got paid. I cannot afford them on what I earn.
He has not given me the money back yet. What should I do?
I feel really down. Many thanks for listening.

[Nini74]

I'm a bit concerned that you don't feel comfortable enough to ask your own husband for the money back - can you not just ask him when he'll let you have the money for the flights so you can put it in your bank? perhaps wait until he's less niggly though. are you okay though? x

[China Doll]

Well yes... ome people do that when they're not well. Just ignore him.

When he is better ask for the money back.

Really not massive issues (unless there's more you're not saying) to be honest.

[happyone2]

Are you concerned that his rattiness is more than just because he is ill especially during his week off work.

Perhaps you need to be brave and ask him if he has a problem with life/him/you at the moment and does he want to talk about it ???

Something it seems is bothering you, so i think something needs to be done

Good luck Pxx