What Should I Say To Him

[DrunkOnChocolate]

so. I got asked out by a guy who I have liked for a little while but he said he wants to go out with me coz he likes my bum. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

[frugalfred]

Ask Pippa Middleton for advice!

[factor-fiction]

How old are you, DOC- about 14? Is he a similar age?
If you go out with him go to somewhere where you feel safe- just meet for a coffee/smoothie or go the cinema and enjoy each other's compant

[factor-fiction]

^ company not compant!

[Davethedog]

Go. Your not committed to anything, make sure you stay in public places.

I know you may think it weird but he, probably, thinks he paid you a compliment. A bit ham handed, but maybe not the most articulate. Don't know your age, but were not all silver tounged devis you know :-)

[Davethedog]

^Devils^

[DrunkOnChocolate]

ok. thanks. I will report back at about 7 tomoz and tell. going out with a friend and may invite him. don't know. or just organise to meet him somewhere else. he said to an x of mine that I make him wet! he is weird!

[dizmouk2009]

People that display acts of effection like that are in my book 'wrong'. I wouldn't even entertain anything like that personally, no matter what age you are. Maybe I am wrong, I usually am. I don't like people like that

[DrunkOnChocolate]

we all have our own opinions. I will think about it. I may actually say no. he is bi after all

[dizmouk2009]

If someone says he likes you for your looks but doesn't have anything better to say than that then he isn't worth it in the first place - bisexual or not. I've never though at physical attraction as having to be a requirement for love but I know it does help but he seems to be focusing his need to go out with you purely physically.

[DrunkOnChocolate]

maybe. anyone got any advise then. bum in or something?!! lol

[DrunkOnChocolate]

I wish I had his number. I need to talk to him!

[dizmouk2009]

Is your bum important?

[pixie373]

Give him a chance, but be safe.

[DrunkOnChocolate]

I am 18. I can look after myself. my bum is important because he likes me coz of it. eww but yay! LOL #SWAG!

[grasscarp]

Personally if I was so unsure of whether or not I should go out with someone that I needed to ask the advice on an internet website I would not go. If your instincts make you hesitate than say no.

[Ric.ror]

Go to the cinema
Not much talking there and something to talk about after

[Hopkirk]

What it is to be young!

[Ric.ror]

Oh hopkirk I agree
If I knew then what I know now

[isaacthunder]

If he only likes you for your bod then how far do you see the relationship going? A great relationship is founded on more than physical attraction. If he only wants you for one thing then I say it would be doomed from the begining. Find out if theres more than that and then figure out what to do from there. Hope the best for your future.

[DrunkOnChocolate]

true and thanks.