Why Does She Randomly Quit During Sex?

[Craftypig]

Just recently started a relationship with a great woman only problem is when we make love she just randomly stops. So we end up laying there for a while then get back down to business. The sex is great, she has no inhibitions, she isn't self conscious but having had sex several times now we've only "gone all the way" once. Any ideas, maybe the ladies on here might have a clue?

[Old_Geezer]

Maybe on those occasions it simply wasn't doing anything for her. Could be other issues stressing her out. Could be age related. Maybe she is the one you should be speaking to.

[B00]

If you're old enough and mature enough to have sex, you're old enough to ask her yourself!

Man up and do it.

[rowanwitch]

I suspect you are doing something that doesn't suit her and she is trying to find a way to let you know... good dialogue usually = good sex

[ummmm]

Maybe it hurts.

[cupid04]

Try a different position?

[rowanwitch]

just a thought... if you make a big issue of the 'all the way 'thing it makes the whole process a bit like a to b on a motor way... take the scenic route enjoy some different scenery for a change... linger in the shrubbery perhaps

[boxtops]

You don't have to go all the way all the time - lots of people get a lot of pleasure out of only going part-way - and that way, when you do get the whole shebang, it's brilliant. Talk to her, she's the only one who can tell you!

[Sqad]

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[Mosaic]

I really applaud Boo's answer

[boxtops]

why odd, sqad? Crafty's asking for thoughts from the female perspective.... :-)

[sandyRoe]

Wis it in Henry Millar's Tropic of Capricorn that the hero was put of his stride when his partner started trying on a hat?

[Mosaic]

..and indeed in Tristram Shandy, asking if the clock had been wound up.

[Sqad]

boxy.......I know that....that's what makes me smile to think that our AB women would have anything to offer............

[andy-hughes]

Getting to know someone intimately takes time, and non-verbal signals take some time to recognise and interperet.

That said, if any partner stops doing something, it's because something is not right. Why not whisper 'Are you OK?' and see what her reaction is.

You don't say if you carry on doing what ever you were doing when things stopped, but remember what it is, and then avoid it for a while, until you can get the essential dialogue going about what you both want and enjoy.

Good luck.

[boxtops]

Pigging cheek, sqad :')

[pixie373]

What does that mean, sqad? We have lots to offer ;-)
i think she's uncomfortable too. Speak to her.

[boxtops]

It can get very distracting if you are - er - involved, and the kitten jumps on the bed and starts looking over your shoulder :-)

[Sqad]

Crafty............more information needed.

Does she have an orgasm?
Do you ejaculate?

[ummmm]

And how long does it last?

[Sqad]

andy.......has any of your women ever said to you...."For God's sake stop yacking and get on with it?".............;-)