ChatterBank13 mins ago
Problem With My Ex
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Hi all
This is a kind of continuation from my previous post.
I split with my ex which I took badly (yes I sent the needy texts)
Well it's a long story but he owed me money and it went through twice. I tried to refund the money but sent it to the wrong account. As soon as I realised my error I made the bank aware and also my ex. The bank are trying to retrieve the money but it can take up to 5 weeks. I told ex and he said that was fine and to just let him know when it comes through, last week he told me not to try and get it back he doesn't want it as he hates me.
Today I get a call from the police stating if I don't put the money in his account by Friday I will be arrested and charged with theft. I tried to explain but he kept cutting me off stating 'my excuses don't wash with him'. I stated I had proof as the bank sent me a letter. He asked me to email a copy to him.
I did as requested and also screen shots of my ex agreeing that he didn't mind it would take so long, and a screen shot of the payment I had made in error. He replied by saying there is no guarantee in getting it back and why should my ex be out of pocket for my mistake!
I don't think I even know what my question is.
Why the *** has my ex done this. It seems a bit routine. Whenever I stop sending the 'needy' texts and change my whatsapp profile pic from something sad to me looking happy and fabulous I seem to get a call from the police. What is he playing at?? It feels like he is playing games just as I seem to move on and cut all contact.
Sorry, I think this was more than a rant than a question but if anyone does have some advice on why my ex is being a total *** then that would be greatly appreciated.
TIA
This is a kind of continuation from my previous post.
I split with my ex which I took badly (yes I sent the needy texts)
Well it's a long story but he owed me money and it went through twice. I tried to refund the money but sent it to the wrong account. As soon as I realised my error I made the bank aware and also my ex. The bank are trying to retrieve the money but it can take up to 5 weeks. I told ex and he said that was fine and to just let him know when it comes through, last week he told me not to try and get it back he doesn't want it as he hates me.
Today I get a call from the police stating if I don't put the money in his account by Friday I will be arrested and charged with theft. I tried to explain but he kept cutting me off stating 'my excuses don't wash with him'. I stated I had proof as the bank sent me a letter. He asked me to email a copy to him.
I did as requested and also screen shots of my ex agreeing that he didn't mind it would take so long, and a screen shot of the payment I had made in error. He replied by saying there is no guarantee in getting it back and why should my ex be out of pocket for my mistake!
I don't think I even know what my question is.
Why the *** has my ex done this. It seems a bit routine. Whenever I stop sending the 'needy' texts and change my whatsapp profile pic from something sad to me looking happy and fabulous I seem to get a call from the police. What is he playing at?? It feels like he is playing games just as I seem to move on and cut all contact.
Sorry, I think this was more than a rant than a question but if anyone does have some advice on why my ex is being a total *** then that would be greatly appreciated.
TIA
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.So far I still think this is a con, all the 'ex' needs to have done is to find a genuine warrent no ( VERY easy) and put it in an email sent from an email address he gave you in the 1st place.
If this was genuine the name would be on the database when your local police checked it. Your 'ex' is likely to find himself in a lot of trouble!
If this was genuine the name would be on the database when your local police checked it. Your 'ex' is likely to find himself in a lot of trouble!
I searched on the police website for the warrant number and the right name came up. I'm just awaiting a call from my local police station.
The money went into the wrong account as I paid the account that was on my internet banking but he says it's not his account.
This (I use the term loosely) 'man' needs help!! He's off his head! Wouldn't think he's 32 years old!!!!
The money went into the wrong account as I paid the account that was on my internet banking but he says it's not his account.
This (I use the term loosely) 'man' needs help!! He's off his head! Wouldn't think he's 32 years old!!!!
Quick update. I spoke to my local police last night and he has emailed the police officer who contacted me to find out exactly what my ex has said and will be calling me back today.
He agreed with me that it's completely childish and wasting everyone's time when it can be sorted out amicably like adults.
Ggrrr all of this over 50 bloody quid!!
He agreed with me that it's completely childish and wasting everyone's time when it can be sorted out amicably like adults.
Ggrrr all of this over 50 bloody quid!!