Problem With My Ex

[charchar23]

Hi all

This is a kind of continuation from my previous post.

I split with my ex which I took badly (yes I sent the needy texts)

Well it's a long story but he owed me money and it went through twice. I tried to refund the money but sent it to the wrong account. As soon as I realised my error I made the bank aware and also my ex. The bank are trying to retrieve the money but it can take up to 5 weeks. I told ex and he said that was fine and to just let him know when it comes through, last week he told me not to try and get it back he doesn't want it as he hates me.

Today I get a call from the police stating if I don't put the money in his account by Friday I will be arrested and charged with theft. I tried to explain but he kept cutting me off stating 'my excuses don't wash with him'. I stated I had proof as the bank sent me a letter. He asked me to email a copy to him.

I did as requested and also screen shots of my ex agreeing that he didn't mind it would take so long, and a screen shot of the payment I had made in error. He replied by saying there is no guarantee in getting it back and why should my ex be out of pocket for my mistake!

I don't think I even know what my question is.

Why the *** has my ex done this. It seems a bit routine. Whenever I stop sending the 'needy' texts and change my whatsapp profile pic from something sad to me looking happy and fabulous I seem to get a call from the police. What is he playing at?? It feels like he is playing games just as I seem to move on and cut all contact.

Sorry, I think this was more than a rant than a question but if anyone does have some advice on why my ex is being a total *** then that would be greatly appreciated.

TIA

[charchar23]

Trust me I don't want ANYTHING to do with him. Can wait until this is all over with.

As soon as its sorted I'm changing my number and moving on with my life!!

[albaqwerty]

Hope it's over soon for you Char, wishing you all the very best x

[charchar23]

Further update. I was arrested today for allegedly harassing ex. Was taken to a police station 3 hours from my house and put in a cell. Luckily I had all the evidence on my phone and was released with no further action. Well guess who decided to text me when I got back?? My ex!! He's sent 4 messages which I've completely ignored.

He's a complete head case

[Mamyalynne]

He certainly is, you're well rid.

[Rhirhi23]

I'm not sure what your situation is now but if you ever find yourself in a situation like this again, don't think too much into it, clearly very toxic and best forgotten about