I love her a lot...

[ravindra143]

I'm having a relationship with a girl for the past 1 year. I know her for the past three years. One of my friends used to love her and has forced her to break the relationship she was having then with some other guy. Their relationship went fine for 2 years. Then he ditched her and found his way out.

Ever since i have come into her life, i have found her to be very happy. Things went very fine until the last month, when i was revealed a horrible fact. Thats she on date with another guy.He happend to be a friend of the previous guy who ditched her. They are friends for the last 2 two years. He came closer to her saying that he hates his friend. When i have asked her about the same, she just blamed me that i was not affectionate to her during her vacations and thats the reason why she got diverted. I love her a lot. I want to assure that i wont miss her in my life. And to my fate, i am going abroad for few years. She needs attention 24/7. Please suggest me.

[spk]

It doesnt sound like its a match made in heaven, you sound quite young just get on with your life and you will meet somebody else. If she is dating other people it doesnt look like she loves you the same way Im afraid.

[lulu85]

If the girl is seeing other people, she either wants to grab your attention and make you pander to her, or she wants rid of you but doesnt know how to do it. You need to ask her outright, that is the only way you will know the truth!

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, well if your not satisgying her then she is gonna go on another date. The fact she has already told you that your not makes this question even more bizarre. If you would have paid her more attention then maybe she would just love you. Go for your few years abroad and just forget about her. Hopefully you will have learnt a valuable lesson, that when someone says something isnt right, then it isnt. Especially if a woman says it... :)

[joby1]

Im not being funny, nor wish to upset anyone, but,
How come you are phrasing in a way to suggest that english isn't your first language, but, typing it pretty well??

[lulu85]

I agree with MrBen5.

Joby1 - what relevance does your comment have?

[joby1]

lulu85, read my answer again and make your own conclusions!

Oh ravindra forget it.

[lulu85]

Is your problem solved now?