Do I have clouded judgement?

[tatyanap]

I have a boyfriend, he has always treated me like ****, and used to abuse me and just a few months ago stopped abusing me. We have lived together for 5 years. Since he never wanted to go out with me outside our apartment, , I have been going out by my self to meet people to socialize with since for over a year now. I have found that men a women treat me at least 75% better than the guy I live with. Recently for two months Ive been seeing this new guy in total of six times, and every time we both were drinking alcohol. This last time he has asked me to be his girlfriend and to break up with the guy that I live with. We were kissing that night and he told me that he loved me in total of 3 times that night. Was he saying all of that just to get into my pants? Then when I told him that I didnt want to loose him over sex, he said that he had to leave. I think when I told him that, he had realized that I wasnt going to have sex with him, and had to leave right then.

[bobbikay]

you should definitely break up with the guy u live with, but don't neccessarily go for the other guy. people tend to say "i love u" lots when they're drunk. and yes, he was probly just interested in sex, but i could be wrong. it sounds like u can find a better guy than either of these. good luck!

[Eve]

Oh honey, I think you need some me time to get to know yourself and build your self confidence so you are strong enough not to let guys treat you like they have been.

It can be an incredibly hard thing to do, it won't be easy but a bit of hard work in the short term could mean you really find yourself and hopefully someone who will treat you right and as preciously as you deserve to be.

If you need any help or encouragement there are so many people on here who have been to hell and back and come out the other side as amazing people and are a real inspiration. If you need us, we're here xxx