i think husband is cheating nasty attitude

[cakes]

if someone is having a affair will there attitude toward the wife/family change? if he is cheating how will he show the other woman he dont want the wife?

[yummymum]

I think this depends on the man, some times you can see a change in attitude, they may go moody with you and seem withdrawn or they may start being really nice to over compensate. However I thing there are a lot of men out there who can act perfectly normal around you and you would never guess. As for the other woman he probably wouldnt do anything to show her he doesnt want you, maybe not answer your calls whilst he with her and call you names etc, but to be honest I think if the mistress is into the man enough she usually just takes his word for it when he says he doesnt want to be with you. I think the best thing a woman can do in this situation is to act totally normal until you have got enough evidence to ask him about it. However if he as give you good enough reason to ask alreadythen just go ahead and ask as you can usually tell by the way he act if he is lying.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, seems to me your having an affair with a married man. naughty naughty. He will show the other woman he doesnt want the wife by just saying all sorts of stuff you want to hear. He will never leave her though. Guys dont generally leave their wife, its usually the woman who leaves. Seems like he is having his cakes (excuse the pun) and eating it...

[ilovemarkb]

my friend was seeing a married man for 8 years. He had nothing nice to say about his wife to her but 12 year down the line he.s still with his wife, i did warn my friend that it would all end in tears, sure enough i was right.

[raysparx1]

Might not be an affair, could be getting a lot of grief at work, and feeling stressful, or the threat of redundancy, I would have thought the first sign of a bloke having an affair is, new clothes, starting to care more about how he looks, aftershave etc, and as the others have said if it is an affair,that is what it will probably stay as, not many leave the family home, why would they ?

[Roughquest]

To all the married ladies out there, if your husband is having an affair or indeed seeing another woman/man (yes, man) - you can rest assured and sleep easy at night that he will ever leave you. COmforting thought?

[Ms.Hijinx]

Funny that cos mine did ****** off with his mistress leaving me with a 3 year old and an 8 month old in Germany with no job, no money, no car and with threat of eviction after 63 days then he completely washed his hands of us overnight and has not bothered since.God bless the British Forces.(I am sure most of them are not as despicable as my ex!!)

[bladdyhell]

shoot her