Love

[wallpaper]

Where can you find that someone special who will not hurt you?

[pollycupcake]

wallpaper. . . . . I dont think you are the only one pondering this one!

[raysparx1]

wallpaper, you can't just find someone to love that will not hurt you, that someone will come along and, love you,protect you,care for you,laugh with you, cry with you, and be with through thick and thin,who can say where or when? it will just happen, the way you have written the question makes me think, you are hurting real bad, I hope I am wrong, but the words sound sad, I hope you haven't because I can relate to that pain, but if you are,the days will become brighter,but it takes time, take care wallpaper, Ray

[snagged]

Don't go looking... someone's out that will treat you the way you want/deserve...

you just haven't met them...

yet. ;o)

[wallpaper]

Thanks Ray

[pollycupcake]

Sorry wallpaper, for my flippant answer. Like many others, I have been through the pain of heartbreak too. Its horrible, and at the time, you think you will never get over it. But it does get better with time OK. Honest.

[wallpaper]

Your ok, pollycupcake, its just that this is my fourth time around and it doesn't get any better, I though I would get stronger but it just rips you to pieces, and I such a nice person.

[raysparx1]

wallpaper if you ever want to chat you can mail me, I will reply.

[email protected]

[Llamatron]

No such thing.

[pollycupcake]

wallpaper, I too am a nice person, maybe too nice sometimes. And I wonder too, whats wrong with me?

[notfrom-oz]

i found the only way this works is finding to love yourself i know that it may sound a little lame but looking for love is a dam sight harder than attracting it and the best way to attract it and to keep it is to love yourself..well thats what im working with! x

[wallpaper]

Thank you, there is nice people out there x

[pollycupcake]

i agree with notfrom-oz. I am trying to feel better about myself before I try and meet anyone else. A bad relationship can ruin your self esteem.

[sleepyj]

get a dog always happy to see you mans best freind

[notfrom-oz]

and sometimes they'll even hump your leg!!

[kitty1981]

ha ha ha notfrom-oz!!!!


my cat loves me and wont hurt me...... she just tries to kill me off with the smells she leaves in her littler tray!!!

I believe there are genuinely lovely guys ot there but finding them is tricky. Just love yourself and be happy and let them find you. It has happened to me once and i never want to go through it again in my lifetime.
take care

[wallpaper]

Thank you for all your replies, notfrom-oz funny!

[LostStar]

The worst thing is finding someone who loves you etc.. but you have to break their heart because you just don't feel the same anymore... don't regret doing what i did, but the world feels so bitter and lonely right now.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, only way you will find that special someone is to be yourself. That someone will be attracted to you and you alone. All these people who say they can never find anyone are always putting on a false image. Because they are listening to their mates, who are nothing like them.
You cant put things down on how to find true love, that someone will just come along. When they do, you need to be honest, faithful and most of all keep them sexually satisfied...

[bladdyhell]

find a paraplegic and unplug his speak and spell