My Girlfriend lives with her Boyfriend...

[time2fly]

she keeps saying she's gonna leave him, this has been going on for months now but nothing happens. Has anyone else been through this and had a happy ending, or am I just kidding myself?

[melons]

if its not to personnal why does she want to leave him? or have you asked her to?
I had a ex boyfriend that was a total loser, fleeced money and eveything out of me, i could see it until i caught him in bed with another person, even then i truely belived i had imagined it. It took me a long time to actually finish the relationship rarther that just say i would. sometimes you get so used to being with that person that you think life without them would be rubbish. i eventually though just left and that was that. i suppose she has got to be ready.

[MiniN]

if she hasnt left by now i doubt she'll ever go. if she REALLY wanted to be with you wouldnt she be out of there like a shot? move on...you deserve much better!

[cartman99]

Take the ascendancy, tell her your not waiting and its over, her reaction will tell you all you need to know.

Someone out there will give you ALL of their time!

[time2fly]

Thanks for the advice, I will use some of it.

[yummymum]

i lived with someone else when i met my current partner who I have now been with for 5 years, I met my current in the January and left my ex in the May, however things were very bad between us and I would have left him sooner or later anyway. I think you should either tell her that your not going to wait much longer or just back off and make it seem like you dont think she is ever going to leave him so you dont want to get too involved.
I think as long as she knows that you will be there she will have her cake and eat it.

[carmelbaby]

Why don't you just come foward and tell her how you feel about her living with her boyfriend?

[time2fly]

Truth is she's not happy, as he's always out and never pays her any attention - but their are kids involved...so its a bit of a mess brewin!