dont know wat to belive

[beautygirl07]

i have been dating this fella for nine weeks now he is in the army and living away from home and he would go back home to england when he gets time of to vist his family he also has a young child back there and friends and family say he could be with his childs mother still and he could be lieing to me about seeing his family i dont know wat to think now just want to know if he is telling the turth what do you think?

[redhead23]

dont know u dont sound like u trust him though!

[Miss Random]

Just like to add my answer to redhead, you don't trust him. He obviously has not done enough to convince you. Has he invited you to meet his friends and family? If not, ask why.

[redhead23]

exactky miss - get rid of him !!!xx

[cartman99]

Hang on, is it your friends and family that say these things?, have they met him?, how do they know?

He could be being totally upfront with you. That said you can find out more from some well placed phone calls whilst he is "with family", not from your phone but one that he wont recognise, so he will answer. Gauge his reaction and detirmine what this means. (IE is he pleased to hear from you, does he talk, can you call him at any time) Sneaky but will tell you more x