what ifs?

[nadcookie]

heya heres the story..me and my boyfriend of 7months have been broken up for ova 2 months now!..but still i jst cant seem to get over it..we were in love or so i thought..but after just a few weeks he went off and snogged 3 other girls!he told me that himself because were kinda trying to be friends!but he told me a little while ago that he misses me and loves me still and regrets breaking up with me(as hes the one who broke up with me)..but everyones telling me that hes just trying to make a yoyo out of me so he has something to fall back on if he dosnt like being single!..hes changed alot and that what even all of my mates think 2!..but i still am holding onto what ifs..what if he dose wanna get back 2gether..even though i wanna move on its so hard!..any suggests how i can try move on?

[redhead23]

forget about him
he wants someone on the end of the phone and when the going gets tough to call and have a leg over

go out with your mates
take up a course
volunteer and keep busy

life is too short to be used mate

[GeordiePengy]

I agree with redhead23. He's just using you for the time being until he finds someone else gullable for him. You don't say how old you are, but I suspect that you are just beginning on the voyage of love. The right guy is out there for you, and I'm sure that this guy is not the one.

[ummmm]

I don't agree. What if he does want to get back with you? What if it's a case of not knowing what you had till it's gone?

If you are tempted to go back....just make sure you do it with your eyes wide open and be aware. That way you won't get hurt.

Oh....and start calling the shots yourself.

[Kaylz1988]

I agree with ummm. Talking from experience my bloke and me broke up for 2months last yr and I started getting over him and not calling him and the rest then it was a case of not knowing what u got til its gone. He might be genuine. So give it a try. But go back into it with boundries, to protect ur self. I wish Id gone back into my relationship with a different attitude!! Gudluck hun x

[4getmenot]

your friends are right and good for them for telling you straight. Seems to me you cant be friends get rid totally, only way to move on. and ummm and kayl I'm ashamed lol why would you let a man see what he wants that way. he's kissed 3 other girls, he's a rat. It may be a case of dont know what you got till its gone but let him miss it. His fault.

[Kaylz1988]

Tru tru! :-| awww poor cookie! I know how u be feeling.
Maybe u shud let go :-(
Why is it ppl dont listen to their own advice (hmmm)!!!

[ummmm]

I was kinda presuming he done that after they split up. As she said he told me himself because we were kinda trying to be friends.

[4getmenot]

yer he did but why should he be able to do that and then decide he wants her back. I wouldnt take him back.

[Squish]

Two months isn't long to have been apart from someone you love so it's still all very fresh in your head. Give it time and you will have a totally different view about it all. You need to make a firm decision in your mind though that it's over and even if he wanted you back, you wouldn't have him because the way he's treated you isn't right and you deserve better than him

[redhead23]

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