why is it that i married a totally beautiful women(attractive) ,married for sixteen years,totally different outlook on life,totally opposite in most ways but get on great with no arguments,fights etc and all that aside if anything were to change it would devastate me
The art of compromise? Affection that overrides political differences? Just a little inertia, perhaps? Generally placid outlook on both sides probably otherwise you would be arguing. Whatever it is, congratulations; can you bottle it?
Well boxerboy, you are very lucky, oppposites attract, like a magnet, what you have is very special, you say you have lots of differences, but the one big thing you have in common is, you love each other, enjoy it, good luck to both of you, Ray