Broken Heart

[shady_jady]

In reply to my question a few days ago... I have told the boyfriend that I can't be with him because i don't trust him (found some more incriminating photo's from that same night with the female best friend). We have now decided to call it a day after a year and 9 months. I'm absolutely heartbroken as we were planning to spend our life together. I can't be with him because I don't believe what he says and he doesn't want to be with me because I'm constantly bringing it up and questioning him. I don't know what to do now. I never thought it would actually come to this. I'm now stuck in the office on my own (the boss is out today), and I don't know what to do with myself. I can't possibly get on with any work. Help me guys. Oh and great! A really sad song just came on the radio.

[Reverandfunk]

Ive done the same and ived on coffee and fags lol

Eating erratically or not eating for a few days wont hurt. It wil get back to him how good you look trust me.

Just be strong and no texts or phone calls, turn it off at night or if yr drunk (we've all done it)

Think of it as a new and better chapter of your life starting

[China Doll]

FFS.... Didn't take long did it Rev?!

Do eat something... Yes we've all done the living on fags and coffee thing but it wears you out, drags you down, makes your skin look bad and in short there's nothing comforting about it!

Have something hot to eat (soup is fine), glass of red etc... (possibly lots of fags if you're that way inclined).

Do not let yourself get run down, speaking from experience you'll feel about a million times worse!

[Reverandfunk]

What didnt?? lol

Fags and coffee wont hurt for a couple of days, I wasnt implying months lol

[China Doll]

Agreement.

I know you still fancy me ;0)

It's just not sensible. And you're old enough to know better. Fags and coffee will make her feel nausious, nervous and give her a headache.

[Reverandfunk]

Yes dear i do fancy you

Althyough I have absoultely no idea of what you look or sound like lol

[shady_jady]

in fact.. i'm not inclinded towards fags or coffe. so I stand no chance! lol. Or wine... I'm useless at this! Bit partial to an Archer's and Lemonade though. May give that a go...

[China Doll]

Archers and lemonade and a big bowl of pasta? Fresh PJ's too (when I'm fed up I go to bed). Other than the archers it sounds like a plan.

That'd make you feel nice and warm too.

Rev - Trust me, you would ;0P

[Reverandfunk]

Flaming sambucas with the fumes sucked thro a straw will put you right or in casualty lol

[gina32]

he doesnt want to be with you now because he feels guilty that hes been found out, and of course he says he cant live without you, cos he was getting his cake and eating it, he isnt worthy of you and so let him go with the hussy or whoever else he wants and just forget him, sooo much easier said than done i know but as has been said time is a great healer and soon you'll be with someone who wants only you and you'll look back at this episode and think what a ****** he was, and that you should have parted sooner

[Reverandfunk]

Why would I china??

[China Doll]

Lol! I have no idea love, I'm just yanking your chain.

[dcountrygurl]

I can relate.. I have been in your shoes and let me assure you that your on the right track... I married a man that I was 100 % in love with that cheated on me before we got married..(yes I still married him) thought I couldnt live with out him.. well we lasted several years and the mistrust not only tore our relationship into shambles but mentally made me a mess.. so we divorced then being so in Love with him thinking Love can coquere all.. married him again.. well we are divorced again and he remarried 3 months after our divorce was final....
here is what I am left with.. miss trust of all men, insecure about my own self and a broken heart with wasted years. He had 5 affairs that I know about.. the saying that you can not teach an old dog new tricks is true...just for the record the other man that I know that cheat have never stopped it gets worse and you will pay thi price.. please dont wait 10 years and then look back and say why did I do that just pick yourself up pray for Gods help.. time will heal your pain...good luck and I am so sorry....

[Reverandfunk]

You wish ;-)

[China Doll]

Not as much as you ;0)

[Reverandfunk]

I just hope you have big hands.....

lol

[China Doll]

I'm not flirting with you any more.

My hands aren't big enough.

[Reverandfunk]

If thats your flirting I'd had to see you when I annoy you lol

[China Doll]

My hands are also cold.

What can I say... I actually am a terrible flirt. Emphasis on terrible.

That and Shady probably doesn't want to read pages of me and you argueing.

[Reverandfunk]

I thought it was quite romantic...our first row

lol

[China Doll]

Oh good grief...