Womens oppinions please

[Spiderbee]

I'm currently studying relationship psycology and I have a quiestion for the women out there.

If you met a guy you were attracted to but you found out he had a partner or wife, would you continue to persue him or leave well alone?

All answers greatly appreciated.

[weeal]

leave him well alone, learned from past experience! <:-(

[Beads]

leave it well alone. Too messy.

[tillyfloss]

stay well clear - wouldn't want anyone going after my hubby :-) do unto others amd all that

[lollyone]

leave well alone. I'ts horrible to be on the other side.

[caz247]

on a lighter note you might want to brush up on your spelling
not a criticism just an observation

[Spiderbee]

I know, my spelling is terrible and it doesn't help that I've had a bit of wine to drink already but I still need as many Thank you.

Also most of you who say you wouldn't - is it because you've already been there and if so, how old were you at the time. Thanks so much for your help. xx

[weeal]

why do so many folk pull up spelling, spoils a thread

[mumof3angels]

I met my husband while he was living with his fiancee.He kept asking me out and I kept refusing. He then left his fiancee, moved out of his house and after 3 months of him asking me out I finally gave in, and we've been together ever since with 3 kids to show for it. But I would never have gone out with him if he had stayed with his fiancee.

[daffy654]

I'd leave well alone,no way would I want to be responsible for breaking up someone's relationship. My marriage broke up because of another woman,I was pregnant with my eldest child at the time :-(

[Petal~flower]

no

[Petal~flower]

Sorry, NO, meaning, I wouldn't pursue him

[penractor]

would depend, is he a "bloke" or a real person ,? blokes do not interest me but if we share intelectual/ spiritual or maybe just random or bizzarre **** in common i'm more likely to find them atracive. i could see that from that perspective, i may not go out seeking this bloke as a partner but might get kind of drawn in. having said that, my judgement has always been notoriously bad (and my spelling)

[tiggerblue10]

I started seeing someone once and found out a few months later that he had a fiancee. That was definitely the end. Even if you are attracted to them you know that they are cheating on them with you. How would you feel if it was the other way round and also if he did leave them to be with you how do you know he won't do it to you at some point. Its all down to trust.

[cazzz1975]

leave alone, persuing it would not be a great idea and if he did cheat on his wife it would show that he was a toerag who eventually would do it to you too

[oldgrape]

wouldn't touch him at all if he is prepared to leave his wife whats the stopping him from leaving me in time.

[Pippa68]

Leave well alone.

I did do it once. I was 17, he was 27 and married. I didn't feel guilty at the time ~ I was young, free & single and considered it his problem, not mine.

However once I was married (to someone else) and matured, I began to realise how his wife must have felt. Never again would I EVER put myself or another woman in that situation again..

[Pippa68]

I dunno about that, leg..Mr Pippa lost his virginity to a married woman.

Mind you, he says he didn't know she was married..lol