Your Bloke looking at other women !!!

[gummybear]

Hi Answerbank peeps !!

I cant bare it when my bloke looks at other women, sometimes i say somet sometimes i dont ! How do you feel about it, does it mean anything....Blokes point of view would be nice too !

[redcrx]

what do you mean 'looks at other women'?
is he just looking? or commenting? or dribbling?

Do you never look at men?

men look, women look, it doesnt mean that theres any meaning behind it. But if it goes further than that then i can understand your annoyance.

[4getmenot]

depends how, if its someone on telly doesnt bother me, magazines dont either. Actually come to think of it if I saw him in pub chatting to a girl I wouldnt bat an eyelid now if he had his hands on her that would be different. I talk to blokes all the time so why cant he speak to girls

[gummybear]

to clarify what i mean here is an example :

We are a very loving happy couple and were recently on holiday . Went back to the apartment for a nice afternoon quicky which was great then when we returned to the pool all loved up etc he proceeded to keep checking out another girl, not stareing but looking then looking then looking, this went on for a good 2-3 hours, if im honest it broke my heart , i never said anything to him but it took me all my time not to burst into tears....am i normal ?

[4getmenot]

well did you tell him this upsets you. I know if I went on hols with my bloke he'd eye them up and probably make a joke but thats the kind of relationship we have. I'd rather he look at them than me :-)

[redcrx]

blokes look, its what they do.

youve just said your a loving happy couple, so obviously looking is all he does.

whos to say if its normal or not, its how you feel and thats whats important.

Have you tried asking him why he does it? chances are he doesnt even realise and would be upset to find out hes hurting you

[legend758duo]

aww gummy thats sad.

i think its the fact that youre by the pool.

my apartments at the pool .
after staying here 18 months i think nothing of bare breast all around .
i usually have t0 cut thru the pool area.
but if youre on holiday theres the novelty factor.

i far prefer lookin at women in their clothes now.

weird i know : - )

[paulos66]

As a bloke with bad eyesight I get captured all the time, I'm usually still busy working out whether they were worth looking at when the inevitable earache suggests otherwise

[China Doll]

I used to do it behind my sun glasses. Still do if it's bright enough outside.

I think it's something we all do to an extent but if it's upsetting you then let him know. He'll probably still do it but he'll be more mindful of your feelings.

I don't think it means he loves you any less though.

[paulos66]

I usually find that if I come up with some bitchy comment regarding the lass I was checking out I tend to get away with it scot free

[gummybear]

I never really notice other blokes not in that way, im loved up and they have lost all appeal, befor i met neil i shopped shall we say constantly, So him looking makes me feel like he is still shopping !!
When iv mensioned it in the past he says somet rediculous like one classic " i was looking at the optics not the barmaid with her boobs hanging out "
It causes rows and id love to know what men are thinking when they are looking....Do they wanna swap you ! Do they wanna have sex with them ! or is it just somet nice to look at ?

[paulos66]

We're just thinking what cheap shoes they are wearing

[legend758duo]

china why were you looking at women round the pool thru your sunglasses ?

[China Doll]

Because I'm a complex character Legend Rolls eyes

Although I do check out shoes too.

[legend758duo]

china just hopw complex can 1 woman really be?

afterall arent you just simple creatures anyway?





legend legs it quick style

na na nananana naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[Reverandfunk]

If he had got anything about him he would do it discreetly.

[paulos66]

I try Rev I really do, but captured every time

[gummybear]

PAULOS - Can i just ask sincerly do you love your girlfriend or would you happily trade her in for these girls you seem to like looking at ?
Legend - thanks for the aww !!
4getmenot - what a bizarre answer - you would prefur your man to be looking at ( ie attracted to) other women than you !!

[paulos66]

Absolutely, I would die for my wife

[4GS]

It's like being on a diet,
I can look at the menu (no harm in that) as long as I don't eat anything
Yes, I adore Mrs4GS and our sprogs, and I still look at other women, but that's all I do, look, not touch.

[gummybear]

Paulos thats relly lovely, why you checking out other women then ? Does your wife notice / care ?