Your Bloke looking at other women !!!

[gummybear]

Hi Answerbank peeps !!

I cant bare it when my bloke looks at other women, sometimes i say somet sometimes i dont ! How do you feel about it, does it mean anything....Blokes point of view would be nice too !

[paulos66]

She's probably used to it by now, accepts it means nowt

[Pippa68]

It doesn't bother me in the slightest.

Ok, if he were the sort of bloke who frothed at the mouth whilst looking at other women it would be different. But then I wouldn't even be with him!

it is perfectly natural to admire beauty in others. Heck, I even manage to point them out to Mr P before he notices..I know his type so well ;o)

[4getmenot]

gummybear ha ha not in that way. I;d rather he got to see a nice tanned body than my lily white rolls :-)

[andy-hughes]

OK - first things first -

Men are genetically programmed to gauge the suitability of prospective females. They look at their breasts - suitable for feeding, and their hips - suitable for child-bearing - that is all hard-wired in but ...

We are not cavemen any more, and a degree of simple mental over-riding is required to be polite. I do look at women, but I would never be so obvious that my wife would see it. If I am out with her and a pretty girl walks past, I would not dream of following her with my eyes in the way I would if I was alone.

Your boyfriend can't realise that this upsets you, and in view of your depth of feeling, I would certainly tell him and I would expect him to curb his instincts from that day on.

I would say that it is entirely an instinctive thing - I gawp at gorgeous young women all the time, although I know that they certainly would have no interest what ever in someone like me.

Looking is just that - looking - it doesn't imply that action or even anything more than simply admiring is going to follow as a result.

That said, if it upsets you, it is disrespectful to you, and he should be advised, and stop now.

Hope this helps.

[gummybear]

4getmenot - Ha Ha - nowt wrong with lily white rolls hun x

[ChocolatChip]

I am exactly the same as Pippa, I am most likely to point out another womans beauty myself. And it doesn't really bother me him looking at other women. He's mine, and we both know it.

[tufty7]

Nothing wrong with looking , Its a hobby for most men , doesn't mean i would want to run off with them though,,,,one woman is more than enough for any man .... and actually i found I can't beat my wife ....which is a shame... :-)

[pistolday]

when he starts looking at other blokes is the time to worry!