my best friend is drifting apart

[ciara louise]

hi
my best friend who i have none my whole life is getting taken away from me. she started hanging around with another girl and the other girl is leaving me out and taking ma friend off me. ive tryed talking to my friend and she says she doesnt like her but shes too sensitive and wont say no 2 her. the other girl gives me the evils and blames me for everything. my frined is now hanging out with her outside school. i dont mind her having more friends but shes leaving me out, i feel so lonely. she also didnt tell me she had i boyfriend and she told other people. i found out from another girl about 4 months later. i tell her everyone. how she i trust her and be her best friend if she doesnt trust me. please help and replay soon. thankyou

[clare_1]

Hunni im afraid these things happen. If you have tried talking to her there isnt much else you can do. She cant be that much of a friend if she didnt tell you she had a boyfriend. Look at your other friends and remember she isnt the only friend you have.

[FKNelectro]

its always hard when you feel like your best friend is leaving you, i've experienced this ALOT. If it was me, i would move on, shes the one thats losing out.

[Roughquest]

Oh honey, you are worth more than this. This happened to me and it does feel like the whole world is against you, but your so called 'friend' is being a child and very selfish, you are a better person than she is if she has to sink to such levels as to treat you like a piece of rubbish to be thrown away when she has had enough. She is the one who is shallow and you should feel sorry for her in the long run, she is has no idea how to treat people and she will learn in time. You need to be brave and just move on and smile, she will come back in time, when it suits her, when she does its up to you what you do. I know you are a better person that she is, that is why you care so much, dont change because of her, be yourself, be genuine.