Bless, I know how it is when you have children to look after. At least you've been a good mum and not just dumped them on anyone to hand so that you can go out and enjoy yourself.
I've heard that some of these dating sites ARE O.K., but I think you've just got to be careful that you don't meet up with anyone too soon. As for the pic - awwww, stop it. Put one up, and to hell with it, but don't judge by looks alone. Maybe I shouldn't say this, but a relative married the ugliest guy I'd ever seen. He's BRILLIANT - very caring, a good partner & father - and for what it's worth - loaded! Good luck xx.