what to do

[Cola bear]

Hi guys
really need advice here..... Had been seeing a guy for 4 years got on fine til last summer. Finished in May. Got back together in Dec with the promise of all things new. Was fine upto 4 wks ago when he went ballistic over something I think is stupid and he wasn't even there to see it or know the proceeding events. Didn't really speak till Thursday night when I met him and he told me that he couldn't sleep eat or think straight knowing that he'd lost me for the 2nd time(not ever open bout his feelings at all so this was a shocker) and is there any chance that I'd give him 1 last chance. Said I'd have to think bout it. Any advice should I give him one last chance.

[VICTIMS]

whenever you split after a long relationship (4yrs) cant imagine it was a sudden thing then, so things must have been building for quite a while last summer. you got back together in december and it was fine till 4wks ago ..time from Dec to month ago, is not a very long time, and its like everyboby is on their best behaviour at the start of a relationship, so if this best behaviour can only last 6-8wks, and it was wrong last year. well i think its probably still wrong.

[richfinch]

go with your gut instinct, the more you think about it the more confused you will feel, what do YOU want to do? if you dont try what you want - you will never know.
I may be soft, but id give it one more time, but with the ruling that verything gets talked about so it doesnt build up and eventually explode, but thats me, and idont know your situatin fully, but you need to do what you feel is right, not what you think is right

[Cola bear]

Thanks Guys for your advice. Really appreciate it xxx