help

[Georgie-Kate]

hey guys some guy i really like tried to compleatly humiliate me in public at a school danse. Luckily I found out his plans before he could. Is there any thing I could do to humiliate him back!?

please help me xx

[Bathsheba]

Challenge him to a spelling competition?

[Georgie-Kate]

what do you mean details? im serious and i was asking for help but if no one here can take me serious then whats the point ... thanks for your time HA!

[Georgie-Kate]

cos aparently i was bi***ing bout his ex ... he had this plan it sounds rli gay but what u expect im 14 .... he was gunna try and get off with me then walk away at last minuete leaving me feeling like c**p and he was gunna his m8 to laugh at me ... sounds rli pathetic but i dont like being made a fool of!

[Georgie-Kate]

cos like i said i dont like being made a fool of! i wanna kik him were it hurts yeh this girl (his ex) i one of about 4 ... ghay enit lol

dragged up?? whats dat???

[Georgie-Kate]

well thank you for you comment. I am for real and I am not a sad slapper as you so kindly put it. so to be honest when you feel humiliated and you look for support I hope people laugh in your face... Good day to you!

[Velvetee]

Maybe the question isn't taken seriously, because mostly adults post here and your dilemma does seem really childish and trivial.

As an adult myself, I would hope I don't get to meet such people who want to humiliate me, but if I did, I'd hope I would just look on that person as the idiot they are and just forget about their actions.

No doubt, if you try to humiliate this person, he will do it back to you and then you back to him. You could both be going round in circles looking for best humiliation tricks, that real life will pass you by. Just try to get over it would be my advice.

[kawwasaki]

plenty of fish in the sea go and get summit else live goes on pal

[{Dakota}]

It seems some people have forgotten what it feels like to be 14.

Georgie-Kate, what this boy was planinng to do wasn't nice, however, I don't think you should take the route of 'getting back at him'. For one thing, he didn't get the opportunity to put his 'plan' into action, so any kind of retaliation on your part will make YOU look like guilty party, not him.

Is it possible for you to talk to him about it, and ask him how he came to the conclusion that you had made remarks about his ex? Maybe talking it through together will put any ill feeling to bed.

[tufty7]

As you get older you will learn to walk away quitely from rubbish, word of advice, losing virginity and swopping mouthfulls of spit isnt compulsary for 14 year olds, enjoy a laff and a joke and make them wait or you will get a name for yourself, unfortunately its a notch on a lads bed post but to a girl it can lead to a name calling ......