After Divorce

[h20farmboy]

What Do You Do After Divorce?? Was Married 20 Years. Ex Wife Drops The Kids Off 24/7. I Love Them Dearly And I Accept But I Feel Like I Am Being Used. She Just Doesn't Want Them Much. But SheWants The Custody. The Kids Love It Here. But They Miss Mom But Mom Doesn't Want To Hear About It. We Have A 2 Year Old That Wants To Be With Me 24/7 Because Mom Doesn't Show Him Any Attention. She Drops ThemOff To Go To The Bar Or Maybe A Week At A Time To Go To Kansas To See Her Boyfriend Which Is Alot. She Works Overtime Etc Just So She Don't Have To Watch The Kids.Where is My Time To Find A Life?? She Knows I Am Always Here. I Have Them My Weekend Her Weekend And All Week In Between. I Have 2 Different Women i Met But They Are Getting Upset With Me That I Have The Kids All The Time And I Won't Say No To Her. But The Fact Is I Don't Want Her Just Dropping Them Off Anywhere , With Anybody, I Want Them To Be Safe . Sad !! i feel Bad Because She Dumped The Whole Family, Cheated On Me And Now Don't Want The Kids Unless She Gets Something out Of It. She Makes Sure She Has The For Her Food Stamp Meetings Etc. But Drops ThemOff Here And Goes Home. The 2 year old Stay"s At The Daycare Almost 12 Hours A Day. She Don't Cook For Them As The Stove Has Junk Mail Knee Deep On It So She Can't Be Cooking On It. What Can I Do??

[China Doll]

Well in England we have the social services so if someone had concern over the welfare of their children then I would suggest contacing them as they could at the very least mediate. I'm sure America must have some sort of similar system that is involved in ensuring the welfare of children so perhaps it would be best to contact them and see what they say.

[Taxman1]

As China Doll says - see a professional mediator. You have nothing to loose.