wa th hell

[rachael88]

hi i was just brousing on th computer and i found loads of porn bookmarked was at least 18 of them, i deleted them all and txt him that i had found it he is at work at the min so he wouldnt of got the txt yet, i found mags and dvds b4 but i just let it pass what do you think xxxx

[B00]

Think nothing- its very normal for the majority of men(and some women) to view porn, if the computer is another way to get some, believe me they'll do it.

As long as what you've seen is nothing truly iffy, I'd let it go, it's no big deal at all.

[daniela31]

Why was you browsing through what your bloke has been up to anyway?
should have left well alone, I'm thinking.

[rachael88]

we both share the computer thats why otherwise i wouldnt , thank you for ure aunswers

[rachael88]

i wouldnt mind him haveing it but there were loads and it was vidios n stuff nd i heard u can get viruses mainly from porn sites xxxx

[liquidspace]

I think I am one of the few people on here that have a problem with this kind of thing. My boyfriend views porn on his days off when I am at work and even if i nip out quickly somewhere he does it. It makes me feel bad, it hurts me to think of him getting off watching naked girls, I want him to just want me.

It's easy for people to say 'hey don't worry about it, it's natural'. Easy to say but when you feel bad about what your boyfriend does you can't just turn off those feelings.

How do you actually feel about him doing it?

[CAJ1]

I know what you mean liquidspace! I know he does it but I don't like it. I could give him sex every day and he'd still do it, I hate it. I feel like he's not getting enough from me and I don't like the thought of him watching other girls naked. I'm quite insecure, I recognise this and I think this is why I don't like him doing it.

[Prangy]

Shouldnt you be at University studying for your hairdressing certificate?

[rachael88]

why dont u just f-off Prangy for ure information i dont start untill th 28th and it has nothing to do with you why cant you drop things you idiot

[rachael88]

thank you for all your help every one xxxxx

[B00]

Hmmm, so basically only folks who share your insecurities recieve stars for their replies?

Nice!

[B00]

oh, lmao- you did!!

Talk about me jumping the gun, apologies :-)

[rachael88]

i think you are all right i am happy with your answer because n a way you are right thank you xxxxx

[B00]

just me being a grumpy mare- again apologies.

Honestly, chick- my advice still stands. Let it go. Men will look at porn, no matter what you say or do. If you keep on at him for it, he'll continue to do it anyway and all you're doing is coming across as a nagging harridan.

[rachael88]

i dont mind him much watching it he has dvds nd stuff but mainly its all th viruses what you can get with the porn sites and he had loads , do you think i should just talk to him about it or shall i not say anything what do you think what would be the best thing to do xxxx

[rachael88]

what devises u mean like vibrators nd stuff have none lol but a good sugestion, to me i dont need em cos i have him lol xxxxxx

[Davethedog]

Youve text him havent you?

Talk about it but he won't stop he will just hide it, he is not being decietful but we all see it as harmless , honest.

Virus software is very good these days.

You have to talk about it now otherwise it will eat at you.

Don't let something that he truely regards as trivial hurt your relationship.