What would be your idea of the perfect guy?

[QueenOfAmber]

What would be your idea of the perfect guy, soulmate and lover - this is of course impossible but what would he look like etc. to you?

I will post my thoughts later on.


Thanks,

QueenOfAmber

[QueenOfAmber]

Oh, sorry I didn't see that last post about you not liking star signs! Oh well, it just proves you could be good together! :)

[sara3]

okay, send him over ;o)

he'd better not smoke!

[QueenOfAmber]

Nope! He doesn't! :)

[Eve]

Just someone who fits with me, I can talk to, laugh with, be myself with.

I'm not long out of a relationship and am staying in my little single bubble for a while.

I've been feeling very mislead recently, I know there was love there and we had a fantastic time but distance (not seen him for 3 weeks since I moved into my new place) has put a different slant on things and I just seem to be seeing the negative. I think that the emotions coming out are leading me to try and be angry at him and want to stay away.

I'm thankfully going over some of the final hurdles, yesterday was his brother's wedding I'd have been at if we were still together.

A week on Monday is my 30th. All plans before were made around him (well, us) and I feel a bit lost planning it and a bit weary after the last few months to want to really do much. I'm still wondering if he will get in touch or not, part of me doesn't want him too and I'm just still a bit confused.

He moved on incredibly quickly, with someone else now and because of that I don't feel I can trust or rely on him anymore even though he maybe told (or didn't tell) me somethings to prevent me from getting any more hurt.

Sorry for the ramble, just think I needed to get some of it out x

[sara3]

okay, I'll watch out for the Royal Mail van.

I assume you're in the UK!

[sara3]

awhh, Jenna. you're so lovely and you deserve so much more. plan your 30th and enjoy it. I promise you, 30 is a fresh start and you'll look back on this man one day and know how much better it can be.

chin up, you're a beautiful girl and good things are just waiting for you xx

[QueenOfAmber]

First of all Jenna. That wasn't a ramble! You just expressed your feelings, that's all! You will learn to love again though, your only 30! :) There is still hope girl! Hope you find Mr. Right soon! :)

Second, Sara. I am in the UK! My friend is English by the way - I presume you are too but it's just to let you know! :) I'll tell him tonight what you think of him! :)

[QueenOfAmber]

I agree with Sara! :)

[QueenOfAmber]

And me of course! :)

[sara3]

hey, I don't know what I think of him!!!

[QueenOfAmber]

Oh, I won't tell him then! :)
What do you think of him then?

[terambulan]

One who loved me, warts and all!

[QueenOfAmber]

Thats a good definition terambulan but what if he wasn't good in bed? Or looked kind of weird? Or was poor etc.! Be more specific please! :) Your answer was still good though!

[QueenOfAmber]

Thanks leggymessiah! :)

[sara3]

Leggy Exposed.

now there's a Sunday newspaper headline!

[QueenOfAmber]

lol!
But still, thanks leggymessiah! :)

[terambulan]

QueenOfAmber - your ideal is here with me; my son! Ticks all your boxes except the rich. He can be found either in a canoe or on a motorbike.....those are his first loves! He holidays skiing, so you have to be fit & active. tip: he's skiing in Canada next January.

His family (me & siblings) will adore you for removing him outta my kitchen !

[QueenOfAmber]

lol! :)
He does sound nice though...
What's his star name and first name please? :)
Thanks!