What would be your idea of the perfect guy?

[QueenOfAmber]

What would be your idea of the perfect guy, soulmate and lover - this is of course impossible but what would he look like etc. to you?

I will post my thoughts later on.


Thanks,

QueenOfAmber

[sara3]

^^^ ♥ ^^^

[lil123]

After the idiots I have had over the past 2 years, I would have to start by saying a man who wasn't going to take me for a fool money wise. Someone who I felt equal with and payed his way.
Someone who respected me and showed me love.
It would help if they were attractive but this is the not the most important thing to me although I couldn't be with anyone I didn't feel some attraction to as I have tried before.
I don't ask for a lot in a man but never seem to find one that is right.
I feel I will be happily single a long time this time round as I have identified what kind of men I don't want anymore which is a great step for me.
I am not scared of being on my own anymore either

[QueenOfAmber]

Lil, your answer was superb! :)

My perfect man (even though it's impossible!) would be handsome, though it wouldn't be the most important thing, richer than me, (I'm a gold-digger!) have a family which liked me, be romantic, take me places around the world, be good in bed, (lol) be a good father and a all-round good mechanic. (so he could fix things)

If only this man existed! :)

[ChocolatChip]

I don't know really. To be honest, I think my boyfriend is my ideal guy. Looks wise and personality wise.
He's extremely tall, dark hair, brown eyes. (Yum!)
He has ambition and drive, which I love in a person. I can't stand people who sit around and wait for someone else to do everything for them.
He tells the truth, even if it isn't what I want to hear. But it's what i'd rather have.
We respect each other and have a very strong bond of communication.
He's fantastic in bed... sorry!... had to be brought up.
He is an absolute gentleman, he never lets me pay for anything, and opens doors for me :) he's patient and very reliable.
I could go on, but I'd make everyone sick!

[QueenOfAmber]

Wow! Your boyfriend sounds hot!!!!!!!! Does he have a brother?
lol
You are very lucky! :)

I just need to find someone like that... :)

Thanks for the answer! I now have hope! :)

[ChocolatChip]

He does! However he's only a half brother and nothing like him. And he's married with kids.
Sorry to ruin the dream. Aha.

[QueenOfAmber]

Oh well, can't blame me for trying! :)

[QueenOfAmber]

Aww! Don't turn your self away from dating! I bet you could get a really nice guy if you try it's just they're hard to find, that's all. Hey, you might just find him round the corner! Have hope, women must not fail because we are the better species of the two sexes! ( lol )
I met this really nice guy the other day but this girl came along and she said she was his friend but she was obviously trying to flirt with him and she led him away! :( He was really funny, good looking, smart, plays an instrument. If only! I mean, I'll see him again but it's kind of dampened my spirits! :)
I'll try again tomorrow! :)
Keep posting answers,
QueenOfAmber!
:)

[sara3]

why don't you tell us what you have to offer your "perfect guy", Queenie?

[QueenOfAmber]

lol!
Well....
I'm beautiful, tall, size 6-8, romantic, like to travel....
And there's loads more.
What do YOU have to offer your perfect guy sara? :)

[sara3]

me? I'm size 8-10 (although most men prefer curves!), settled, look good for my age, witty, wise, caring, clean, honest, capable etc etc...

but I'm also weary of the whole dating scene, and feel battered!

[QueenOfAmber]

Aww! Why? You sound really cool! :)

[sara3]

because most men around my age (I'm 42) are looking for younger girls. they seem to think they're sex gods!

and those I've liked have treated me like a bit of a monkey.

(no offence to monkeys!)

[QueenOfAmber]

You sound still really cool sara! :) I think you'd like my friends because he's just turned forty yesterday and he likes being romantic, traveling and he looks kind of like Hugh Grant. I'm not presuming anything but you two might make a good couple...
What's your star sign might I ask? Maybe the stars will tell us if your good for each other! :)

[Ethel]

Of course you're a size 8, QueenofAmber - you're only 11 years old.

[QueenOfAmber]

Did someone say anything? lol

[sara3]

Ethel, I'm 21. twice.

Queenie, I'm Sagittarius but am not really into that kind of thing. I have enough trouble when I allow all star signs in!

[QueenOfAmber]

PERFECT!!! HERE'S WHAT IT SAYS:


You are a Sagittarius and you long for a stable relationship, you need someone who you can trust and have fun with as well as having a long relationship. You ideal match would be with a Leo as they are the lion sign and wants to be loved, you, Sagittarius, can give Leo that love and Leo will give you protection and happiness.

Famous couples: George IV (Sagittarius) and Queen Mother (Leo);
Christine Taylor (Leo) and Ben Stiller ( Sagittarius);
Don Johnson (Sagittarius) and Melanie Griffith (Leo) and many more.


SEE! YOU TWO ARE PERFECT! (HE'S A LEO BY THE WAY IN CASE YOU HAVEN'T NOTICED! LOL)