advice for a friend

[wilkays]

a friend of me's hushand suddenly decided to go abroad leaving her pregnant to twin boys and came back 2 and a half years later. 8 weeks after his arrival he announced he was going away again abroad for 4 months . He is due to come back in their lives again but now she does not trust him. She thinks he is playing up abroad is their any way of finding what he is up to online cos when he is here he is always on the computer and is very secretive?

[pastafreak]

He went away for 2 1/2 years...and she took him back?????
...and then took him back again???...is she a glutten for punishment....or just very foolish?

She should have dumped him the first time...he may very well be living a "double-life", with another wife or partner...and children to maintain. He is behaving neither as husband,partner or father....he sounds willful and selfish to be doing what he has done.Tell her to change the locks and have NOTHING to do with him.

[CheekyChops]

Is he a *turkish waiter or something? Is she mad?

*Nothing against turks in particular but they are always the ones I read about in Take a Break...

Seriously, is he a foreigner or something? Most women would boot him into touch after 2 1/2 weeks never mind 2 1/2 years!!!

[trt]

Is this a wind up?

[wilkays]

No seriously its not a wind up. She needs to know if she can monitor him when he goes on her computer just to be sure b4 she makes the final decision

[lil75]

One word...mug, tell her to get shot!!!

[pastafreak]

She shouldn't even be thinking about it.........all she really needs to do is wave goodbye.

[cazzz1975]

blimey, she should get rid or at least shop him to the CSA

[onlyme26]

well i agree with all the answers but that wasnt your question, you can look in the internet history by opening a web page clicking "view" then "explorer bar" then "history" there will be a list of the sites he has visited, tho is wont log you on to anything that is password protected so not sure what you can find out from this,

she must be desperate to find out but i really dont think he will have left any traces of anything for her to find, if he is being secrtetive im sure he will know how to delete his history on the computer

well good luck anyway xxx

[wilkays]

Well she suffers from loveitis. she just cant let him go u know ............ not desperate .............but just in love???????????

[ddaisy992]

he should be spendin the time with his kids instead of going on line! What a horrible rat of a man 0(

[bms]

If its work related, I don't see any problem with that.
In first place why doesn't your friend trust her husband?
May be there is something else she knows about him, our comments might not be exact for that matter, might be biased towards her feelings.