Love

[bigmamma]

Do you think it's better to have someone who loves you and then you lose them , or never to have had anyone love you ever .?

[sara3]

anyway, I always keep an eye out for a man.. but when I meet one I like I end up thinking, "what the hell did I want to do this for??"

:o)

[Rosetta]

bigmamma, we all have days filled with feeling of regret and loss, its what makes us human; not self satisfied, smug and arrogant. I dont want to be that so I take the down days to be rebalancing of my life so I am hopefully a person worthy of affection
Who knows what is round the corner for us but I feel we she continue with hope and optimism.
I wish you loads of hugs

[Panic Button]

Well I love you, Bigmamma

[bigmamma]

Hi sally hun , thanks sweetie . I think it's coming back already Bathsheba , I feel much brighter . I just would like to be treated like a woman for once , I've always been a daughter , sister , nurse , midwife , and mother , but never a partner .
I do value all the love from family and friends greatly though and I'm so grateful I have that . xxxxxx

[bigmamma]

Bless you Panic Button , I love you too hun :-D x

[Ice.Maiden]

Hi Bigmamma. Well I don't need to tell you what I think about you. I've said it to other people - and yourself - enough times. I've never heard a bad word word against you, and listen to what some of these guys are saying, because you could meet someone just standing in a bus queue. None of us ever know what the future holds, and I reckon there are a few good males out there who don't know what they're missing! Never think never, hun. HUGS.xxxxx

[Rosetta]

Tomorrow's another day bigmamma, it could be great fun, something could make you laugh, you could say something to someone else that helps them, someone will say something nice to you. Affection is all around you.

It doesn't sound a bad day to me

[bigmamma]

Hugs and more kind thoughful words Ice , and bez sweeties . Tomorrow is another day and I'll probably wake up as bright as always , and yes , we don't know the future , and I should just feel lucky to be part of the future , God willing .xxxxx

[Ice.Maiden]

Here's something which might make you smile, BM. A great Aunt of mine, who died a few years ago now, met the love of her life when she was almost 80! She'd been married 3 times, and then unfortunately had to go into a care home. it was there that she met her fourth and last husband. She said the rest'd been "rubbish husbands", and that she'd fallen deeply in love for the first time in her life. They were married within 4 months of meeting each other, and we'd never seen her so happy. Pity they didn't have longer together, but the time they had was very special. x

[bigmamma]

Awww , what a lovely story of your Aunt , dear lady , I'm pleased she found her real soulmate xxx

[Ice.Maiden]

So are we - but her children felt a bit miffed when she included their dad as a "rubbish husband"!!! They got over it though. : )

[lindapinda]

you've maybe headed off to bed now mamma,but,just wanted to add my hugs to you((()))).You're a lovely,warm,generous and very witty lady,and when you're feeling lonely and down,I hope it helps to know you're very much appreciated and loved on here xx

[Ice.Maiden]

Hi Linda. This is so true. I'm sure BM knows that she has an army of folk who want to see her smiling and happy again.

[bigmamma]

Hello goodbyegirl , lindapinda , and Ice , sorry I missed your posts last night as I'd gone to bed . Thank you for such kind words , they mean a lot and it's really lovely to have such great supporting friends on here , you're fantastic :-) xxxxxxx

[Lakitu]

Bigmamma, I can't add any more than what all these lovely people have said, but I love you too!

((((((bigmamma))))))

[bigmamma]

Thank you very much Lakitu , that's lovely of you :-) xxxxx

[Sgt.Rock]

I quite like you too, bigmamma.