out of order!?

[marc19985]

Can some one please tell me if it's ok for my boyfriend to make comments such as this about my girl friend's, for example:

me = "so i went for dinner with alicia"
boyfriend = " is alicia stll looking hot?"

i think this is just rude??? Im not sure why my boyfriend would possibly want me kow he was looking at my friend in such a way. Anyways if im beng a drama queen someone just tell me.

[poltergeist]

I cant believe this! he is bang out of order! I want to sleep with all my girlfriends friends (even the unatractive ones) but I would NEVER let her know.

tell him you think his friends are hot

[ummmmmdedum]

There you poltergeist.....!!!

I wouldn't pay much heed. He feels he can say it so there is good chance that he's confident in your relationship.

[ummmmmdedum]

Poltergeist....what about your wife's friends???

[poltergeist]

actually I am married now. I meant wife

[ummmmmdedum]

Ok then....

[wolf63]

he forgot that he was married?

[SuDFB]

I think he is out of order its a complete disrespect...

I personaly wouldnt take it and would make the same comments about his friends...

[poltergeist]

wolfy didnt forget but I am still in the habit of saying girlfriend and not wife. does this explain it for you or would you like me to take 20 minutes out of my very busy schedule and go into more detail?

[jadeymodel]

I really don't think men actually thik b4 they speak-Either tht or he's done it to get you jelous to show him you do care perhaps???
Either way hun I believe in karma & if he's good enough to give it to u...Then he'll have to take it when you do it back! :)

Don't blow OTT with this once-Let him know how you feel, drop it & surely he'll not do it again...But if it happens again?...Give it straight back :)

xx

[tiscaliscam]

its a man's nature to look and admire if he was not like that maybe u wouldn't want to be with him, so long as he is just saying that its No harm at all be weary of men who desire n predent they do not

do you really think he would have said anything like that if he intented to do something with her?

[marc19985]

yes, yes he is