Are all men like this???

[shanilisa]

I am becoming increasingly disillusioned with men. I met a lovely guy at our local medical centre - both of us were taking our children to the same doctor and got chatting. He sent me a text the next day and over the next couple of weeks we chatted and mailed. He said he was divorced with one child. We eventually went out for dinner to a lovely restaurant and had a great evening. Chatted over the weekend, then on the Monday he says "he needs to talk to me face to face" - guess what?? Yes, he is still married and living in the same house as his wife. I told him to get lost. I think that I am also feeling stupid for falling for his charm. Having come from a relationship where my husband cheated on me, one would think I would have realised that this guy was still married.

[sqad617]

A sensible shanila and an equally sensible wife.

[reception]

most wives do stick to their husbends when they find out, sadly in this game the mistress always gets hurt. you are very good to get over him, he is not worth your time or your company. know your worth. he's not worth any thing.

you can not be in love with one person and sleep with another. thats just too strange and untrue.

good on you don't give him any more chances. "tell him close the door behind you and don't come back"

[sqad617]

reception.......total nonsense (in my opinion) of course you can be in love with one person and sleep with another, whether you are male or female.

Millions throughout the world do it all the time.

[jake-the-peg]

you can not be in love with one person and sleep with another. thats just too strange and untrue

There are a number of cultures around the world where men have a number of wives.

There are even a few where women have more than one husband.

In most cases they are adamant that it is quite possible to love and have a sexual relationship with more than one person at a time.

These are not the same sort of thing because there is no dishonesty involved but I think the idea that someone cannot simultaneously love more than one person is like suggesting that a parent can love more than one child at a time.

[sqad617]

Jake.........sheer poetry.

[reception]

ok you have apoint perhaps you can sleep around and be in love with someone else.
people who marry for love do not sleep with others while in love with some one else.

yes it is possible and not untrue. I guess your talking from a man's point of view. women have bit more emotions,
but then like you sid sex is sex it does'nt matter who or what you do it with. must be a 21st century thing!!!!LOL

[reception]

jake-the-peg
by the way love takes many many different forms you cannot compare love between child and mother ... man and woman... mother can love ten kids all the same. but a man or a woman can not love ten people at the same time.
sorry but that rubbish talk.

are you sure your not talking baout lust mate.
i mean i can lust after 20 people all at the same time but I only love one.